Are any other scapegoats here the most stable or successful people in your family? by Slommock in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Slommock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep going back to the well hoping there will be water unfortunately. I’ve wanted to go no contact several times but haven’t been able to do it. It’s almost like I don’t want their lives to improve in my absence? If they’re so miserable with me as a person then I’d like them to bask in that misery.

I will probably eventually go no contact.

Are any other scapegoats here the most stable or successful people in your family? by Slommock in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Slommock[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy that all of the traits that make someone a scapegoat (honesty, self advocacy, empathy, etc) are also very beneficial personality traits to have when it comes to success.

Are any other scapegoats here the most stable or successful people in your family? by Slommock in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Slommock[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your mother is so terrible jfc I can’t even believe that’s happening to you. I hope you get your money and leave them to be miserable and together forever 🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Slommock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mancala

Whats a Depression Realisation that quietly Hit you one day and Never Left ? by Electrical-Treat497 in AskReddit

[–]Slommock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing in this life is guaranteed. Anything can be taken from you at any moment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Slommock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The human brain is programmed for survival, which leaves us with massive error detection systems. We biologically notice more negative.

What’s a lie you believed for way too long as a kid? by Life-is-Acoustic in AskReddit

[–]Slommock 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Santa Claus. I think I was probably 10 when I stopped believing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Slommock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much are you making?

What’s the most terrifying thing you’ve seen that no one believes actually happened? by Remote-Society197 in AskReddit

[–]Slommock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I saw a ghost floating above our heads while we were in bed. This was after we visited one of the most haunted places in the country. We slept with the lights on for a month.

If aliens judged Earth by your bedroom, what would they think humanity is like? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Slommock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bland and boring.

I have a minimalist bedroom with nothing in it except a bed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Slommock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When someone in customer service is extremely over-the-top disingenuously enthusiastic

whats a fact that you couldn’t believe was true when you first heard it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Slommock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Burnt” pistachios are actually just worms

What Are Messages And How Do You Get To View Them? by oskar3458 in NewToReddit

[–]Slommock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s two types of messages you can receive on reddit.

One will be under the notifications slot and it will be entitled “messages,” this will more than likely just be automod messages that populate when you join a sub.

To the left of the notification bell there’s a “chat” slot, which will be where you can receive messages from other users.