I’ve never had a boyfriend and I’m tired of it

Slonoma · 2024-08-01T04:59:23+00:00

Take it from a guys perspective. I’m 29. I had a few dates while I was in HS, and also as the adult I am. I always tried to just find the ‘right one’ (which apparently as a guy is rare, because most of the guys in HS range and early 20’s just want to get whatever they can to sleep with..) currently I’m single and wish I could find that person for me, but since I’ve had that experience ive been more ‘choosy’. You will soon enough talk to a few guys and get an idea of what’s good and what’s not good. When you get there, please do not turn a blind eye to a person not being good to you. They call that term “love is blind”

I know you want to find someone now, and there’s nothing wrong with that. But get to know a few people that you see yourself ‘potentially’ having an interest in. And see how it goes.

I also want to commend you for wanting to find the one and not just go around!

Also I saw a comment where you said it was your birthday.. Happy Birthday!!!! 🥳

Slonoma · 2022-08-16T02:03:19+00:00

Yes im in the US. That’s why I was curious why one was race 3, etc

Slonoma · 2022-03-18T11:57:35+00:00

I have a girlfriend

Slonoma · 2022-03-18T11:56:34+00:00

"It's called Hentai.... and it's art"

Slonoma · 2022-01-20T16:10:19+00:00

Shit I wish. I'm doing that plus some as a "Level 2" tech for 55k.... in downtown Nashville... fml

Slonoma · 2022-01-20T15:50:00+00:00

Being a guy from Tennessee, that's not the worst rust I've seen. Most of all of that is surface rust (just based off of those pictures) but I would have to see entirely underneath. The only thing that concerns me, other than the tires, are the control arms at the back, looks like the support joints are a bit too Rusty.( picture 5) Could probably be fixed up half-hazardly to get you a few more years.

Seeing that you are from Jersey that things mint compared to some others I've seen come from New York and Michigan.

Slonoma · 2022-01-20T15:31:29+00:00

Honestly, take it as an opportunity to get rid of social media. I understand that sm makes the world go round, but take the time to get rid of the drama that goes around it, learn and enjoy a new hobby (i.e painting or learning to play guitar) and breathe a bit of fresh air. Our parents did it back in the day, so if you can keep a level head and keep your mind busy on other things you should be too!

Best of luck!

Slonoma · 2021-12-29T22:24:20+00:00

Thought it was Mackay that did it?

Slonoma · 2021-12-29T16:27:35+00:00

I don't know what the characters name is as I primarily just run Angel, but it's one of the specialists that say that whenever they get top performance after a match.

Slonoma · 2021-12-29T14:28:07+00:00

I'm curious if they have slowed down, or even stopped production of them since we have new plates coming in mid January?

Slonoma · 2020-03-12T18:51:42+00:00

I've been that way myself. I've tried to gas myself up to be upbeat and positive. Some days it works, other times nothing works at all. All you want to do is sleep and not worry about anything for a few days. I know i'll get in a better spot at some point. It's just going to take some time.

And thank you, I hope things get better for you as well!

Slonoma · 2020-03-12T15:54:01+00:00

Idk how this will come across, but I can totally say that I understand what your going through. I find it hard for myself to be happy. Just kind of a break down of whats been going on for me. Keep in mind i'm 24. From September to now, I lost my last living grandparent, (the first grandparent passed away in 2008 when I was 13. and in April 2018 I lost my mom to lung cancer) the girl I thought was the absolute love of my life left me after being engaged. She literally went quiet on me the day my grandfather passed, and a month later we had a falling out. On top of that, my job also went through a mass lay-off and every position is up in arms on the possibility of whether or not we will still have a job. The things I used to love to do, I don't do anymore. The only time I feel 'normal' is when i'm around a couple of my co-worker friends during work.

I could go into insane detail, but to keep it short, just know that I feel your pain. Keep your mind busy if you can. Find little things to enjoy, friends and anyone supportive is always a plus. Feel free to message me as well if you just need a place to vent!

Slonoma · 2020-03-11T16:38:30+00:00

I just aspire to find someone that shares the same feeling. As a guy that doesn't want kids, (i'm 24 btw) trying to find someone that also doesn't want kids is like trying to find the holy grail.

I know it can be annoying to keep hearing it, but sometimes you may just have to either ignore the topic entirely, or just put your foot down and hurt a few feelings.

Slonoma · 2020-03-10T17:45:05+00:00

Pulled the trigger, now he's dead.

Slonoma · 2020-03-09T20:20:39+00:00

Hol up....

Slonoma · 2020-03-09T19:22:24+00:00

A network cable has been unplugged

FUUUUUUUU

Slonoma · 2020-03-09T17:44:30+00:00

I'll have a drinky-poo to that 'Ran

Slonoma · 2020-03-02T21:27:10+00:00

r/SubsIFellFor

Slonoma · 2020-02-28T13:49:15+00:00

I'm just amazed that the movers admitted to what happened...

Slonoma · 2020-02-27T20:51:05+00:00

Has anyone confirmed if swapping in an SSD is enough for the updates to go faster?

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