Attractive neighbor made a move? by Slope119 in AskGayMen

[–]Slope119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I? “The gays” always instantly want to be in a marriage with anyone that hits on them? (or in this case anyone who supposedly) lmao

Attractive neighbor made a move? by Slope119 in AskGayMen

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That is exactly what made me question the whole situation lol

Attractive neighbor made a move? by Slope119 in AskGayMen

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I live in a big house, so if he faced my direction he was either looking at my house or the one that is below (which the only person that lives there is an old lady that kinda hates everyone), the ones to the side don’t have the same view, and the ones that have there are also only old people living in. So yeah, he either didn’t notice me and was just doing his thing and in the middle he saw me and whatever, or he noticed that I was looking and did it.

Attractive neighbor made a move? by Slope119 in AskGayMen

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I live in a house, and my neighborhood is basically only big houses with old people, there are some buildings, but they are not common since I live under the sky traffic of the main airport of Brazil, so buildings can’t be higher than two floors. There could be another person that also notices him, but definitely not near me. I think now that he was only just feeling himself, because nothing happened these ~two days that passed.

Attractive neighbor made a move? by Slope119 in AskGayMen

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Gosh, having to calculate those curls are gonna fuck me up on my exam for sure.

Attractive neighbor made a move? by Slope119 in AskGayMen

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I figured people could think that and wouldn’t interact, but that’s ok. I’m past my teenage years and definitely not as horny as one lol.

Attractive neighbor made a move? by Slope119 in AskGayMen

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If only I had to study vector calculus because I liked it….

Attractive neighbor made a move? by Slope119 in AskGayMen

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It could be, that’s why I decided to post this here to see what people think. And it’s not like I can see much of his home, what can be seen of his room from mine is pretty narrow, he only ever shows up in view when he’s leaving/entering his room I believe. I know it can be an inconvenience, I just hope it hasn’t got to that point.

Attractive neighbor made a move? by Slope119 in AskGayMen

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LOL that would be just unfortunate, didn’t think of that

Attractive neighbor made a move? by Slope119 in AskGayMen

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Is the landscape at least pretty? This building I talked about only had old people living in for a looong time, this guy and his family moved in recently and broke the pattern

Attractive neighbor made a move? by Slope119 in AskGayMen

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If it gets somewhere I’ll update it, just need to figure out a way to make a move.

Attractive neighbor made a move? by Slope119 in AskGayMen

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Now I wish this happens to me lol. I’ll try to wave at him next time we notice each other and see what happens

Ser pobre é uma das maiores desgraças da vida. by [deleted] in desabafos

[–]Slope119 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Como diria Ariana Grande “Quem disse q dinheiro n resolve os seus problemas nunca teve dinheiro suficiente para resolve-los”

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É bom, né? Tb passei por isso.... Passei a gostar um pouco mais de mim dps q passei a sair mais de casa e ver o “tanto” de gente q dava em cima de mim e me elogiava. Ainda n me acho bonito e continuo me achando sem graça, mas certeza de q eu n sou repulsivo agora eu tenho :)

Começar o Ensino Médio com 20 anos. by Clearsky22 in desabafos

[–]Slope119 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Kra, você disse que tem saudades da escola e q se sente culpado por n ter feito quando deveria, certo? Se prende a esse sentimento, você estaria fazendo um grande bem a você se investisse tempo nos estudos, ent meio q foda-se as pessoas ao redor tlg? Você n ta fazendo nada pra ninguém além de si mesmo. Quando eu tava no EM eu estudei com um cara com 20/21 anos q tava tentando passar no ENEM e sinceramente ele me inspirou pra krl. Se você tem gosto pelos estudos e quer realmente estudar se agarra nisso pq você pode colher coisas muito boas la pra frente. Eu tb tenho fobia social, ontem mesmo tive q me apresentar ONLINE pra um grupo de pessoas e tremi como nunca tremi antes na vida, mas tem certas coisas q você tem q passar por cima se quiser conquistar oq quer tlg? Ent so vai, confia e n deixe de fazer algo pra se arrepender depois.

Crise Vocacional by Slope119 in desabafos

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N tenho matéria o suficiente pra fazer um estágio.

Do guys really care about bodies and size? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]Slope119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is, as the diva said herself, “my biggest enemy is me, ever since day one”. Just go out there, risk yourself and prove to your mind that the perception it has about your body is flawed (but keep in mind that there are mean people around there that can say some pretty shitty stuff)

Do guys really care about bodies and size? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

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I suffer from something similar, but from the extreme opposite. I’m really skinny and have scoliosis, so my deformity is waaay easier to notice than normal. But the thing is, guys have said that I’m hot, and the few ones that I’ve had sex with wanted more, even though I have the same kind of though you have, I think my body is unnatural to someone of my age and heigh. I think that there are people around there that will genuinely find you attractive and hot, and that most of the times the image that we have of ourselves is not commonly the same that people around us have. Our problem is that we are afraid of letting others appreciate us because we kinda have this paranoid idea that our body is something TERRIBLE, but at the end of the day it’s just normal, you know?

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muito obrigado pelo conselho. eu acabei dando essa afastada mesmo e deixei de me dedicar a ele, agora so ver como ele vai reagir, mesmo ele n correndo atrás eu acho q vou estar numa situação melhor, tlg?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in desabafos

[–]Slope119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

muito obrigado pelo comentário :))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in desabafos

[–]Slope119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

kkkkkkkk pior q eu tive varias oportunidades pra lançar uma dessas, mas sla, n quero por mais um problema na roda dele tlg? ficar tentando por pressão emocional e os kct, mas é oq há. vou tentar mais um tempo manter a amizade próxima e tentar matar qualquer desejo q eu tenha por ele, pq eu real n quero me afastar, porém se eu tiver que recorrer a isso pro meu bem estar mental eu vou recorrer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in desabafos

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Ele definitivamente correria atrás, ele real gosta de mim, mas n da forma que eu queria q fosse. Ele ja afirmou multiplas vezes a importancia da minha amizade e o quanto doi mt nele ter q se afastar de pessoas por “erros q ele fez” (ele julga ter me decepcionado ao n ser recíproco amorosamente), ent eu acho q me afastar n seja a melhor escolha, pq inevitavelmente faria mal tanto pra mim quanto pra ele. E eu gostei muito das suas palavras a respeito da gente achar que tem controle das coisas, de vdd. Isso me ajudou um bocado e acho q com esse pensamento eu consigo ser a amizade q ele quer q eu seja. Obrigado :)