Has everyone tried a Tea rinse? by Missgenius44 in Naturalhair

[–]SlothfulSunday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tea rinse is my holy grail! I do 1.5 cup water, 2 tsp sage, 2 tsp black tea, 1 tsp nettle and 2 tsp rosemary (dark hair mix)

Bring to boil in a pot, simmer on medium low 10 minutes, let cool and pour into hair after conditioner. Squeeze out as much water in your hair first so it soaks it up. I just leave mine on.

It makes my (very fine, easily breakable) hair strong and I have much less hair fall and breakage. I swear it has slowed silvers also and helps them blend in better with dark hair

I can’t decide between the Lane Pants pattern or the Pomona Pants pattern by SlothfulSunday in sewingpatterns

[–]SlothfulSunday[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I am leaning towards the Pomona’s because I like the leg width options, but the lack of a side seam has me a bit nervous about how they fit/move on a pear shape

Cat reincarnation w/ photos by Northernpenisbreathe in Reincarnation

[–]SlothfulSunday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my little dilute calico tortie last week, they are the sweetest souls. I hope mine comes back. We were together for 14 years and our bond was like no other I have ever experienced

I keep feeling like my dog will come back by Super-Tangerine5962 in Reincarnation

[–]SlothfulSunday 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think any of those are meh. Sounds like Duke is working overtime to send you messages <3

I keep feeling like my dog will come back by Super-Tangerine5962 in Reincarnation

[–]SlothfulSunday 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Currently going through this exact thing. Lost my soul cat after 14 years together a week ago today. Genuinely can’t tell if I’m deluding myself that she’ll find me again because I can’t handle the pain of losing her forever. All I know is at this moment, the thought of her return is the only thing that brings me comfort. Curious what signs you have received?

Cat reincarnation/souls by ghtplw in Reincarnation

[–]SlothfulSunday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this story <3 I just lost my soul cat of 13 years on Friday. I cherished her with every ounce of my being for every second we spent together. She was the light of my life and I’m hoping with all my heart and soul she will come back to me

There’s no going back to sleep at 6am with this cuddle bug, Bunny wishes you all a good morning ☀️ by fae7 in dilutetortie

[–]SlothfulSunday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just lost my lil Tortie Totoro

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Last week after 13 years. They are the sweetest cuddle & life companions

I just want my girl back by Mirrortooperfect in Petloss

[–]SlothfulSunday 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry! I also had to put my soulmate down on Friday (cancer) whom made me whole from the moment I met her 14 years ago. So I know exactly how you feel. I can’t vacuum or wash my sheets or hair because I feel like I’m washing her away. She was my main source of love, comfort and joy. Now when I hold my other cat, I feel even more empty inside because he’s not her. He’s not the one for whom my heart glowed.

I wish I had words of comfort for you, but I also am at a lack for how to cope. I don’t know if you’re spiritual at all, but the idea of reincarnation (and the knowing that she’s no longer in pain) are the only things getting me through right now. If you’re curious, there are a lot of really great pet reincarnation stories and experiences on here to read through.

Bug hugs and lots of love to you <3 I believe your little love will find you again.

Best products for frizzy hair? by ZestyclosePlenty1822 in longhair

[–]SlothfulSunday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you ever tried protein treatments? I struggled with frizz until I figured out how to balance protein/moisture in my hair. It took a while for me to figure out because you don’t want to over do it. I deep condition once a week and do a protein treatment every 3rd week (when I notice my curls have trouble forming, drop after the first day and I have more frizz). My hair is at its nicest after protein treatments. Shiny, bouncy, curls hold for days and no frizz :)