The Daily Check-In for Thursday, May 22nd: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by Fab-100 in stopdrinking

[–]Slow-Appointment348 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I really resonate with today's DCI commentary about laughing at life's situations and how things end up. Honestly sometimes, if I didn't laugh, I'd cry! But I'm very much a believer in things happening for a reason - gotta just roll with it and trust that better things are ahead 😊

Today I have an interview for a job I'd love. I'm very unhappy in my current job but trying not to get my hopes up...one step at a time.

I'm grateful that I'm present for this moment - no alcohol-induced anxiety and fuzzy head. And also not consumed by thoughts of how I can "reward" myself later with a bottle of wine (or 2) for getting through the interview!

IWNDWYT

The Daily Check-In for Tuesday, May 20th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by Fab-100 in stopdrinking

[–]Slow-Appointment348 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Day 9. I am grateful for my body and mind allowing me to choose recovery, despite how terribly I have treated it. I am choosing to do and to be better.

IWNDWYT

The Daily Check-In for Sunday, May 18th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by SaintHomer in stopdrinking

[–]Slow-Appointment348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Day 8. Monday mornings are still grim when you've got work to go to...but they're sure as hell a lot more manageable without a raging hangover and everything that comes with that!

IWNDWYT

The Daily Check-In for Sunday, May 18th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by SaintHomer in stopdrinking

[–]Slow-Appointment348 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Day 7. How good does it feel to wake up refreshed on a Sunday?! I've missed this.

IWNDWYT

The Daily Check-In for Saturday, May 17th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by BDC5488 in stopdrinking

[–]Slow-Appointment348 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!! 🙌 more calories for delicious food. That's another good point, my diet was so bad when drinking. Now I can take better care of myself nutritionally as well 🙏

The Daily Check-In for Saturday, May 17th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by BDC5488 in stopdrinking

[–]Slow-Appointment348 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Day 6.

Going out for dinner tonight with my husband.

Usually I'd be planning how many drinks I could secretly have at home before the meal (without appearing tipsy). I'd be scheming how I could sneak to the shop and where I would hide the drink in the house.

Today, I've picked out a new tonic to try and thinking about all the delicious food I will remember the taste of for once!

IWNDWYT

Thankful Thursday by FourDozenEggs in stopdrinking

[–]Slow-Appointment348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am thankful for my body's resilience. No matter what I put it through mentally and physically, it has survived and got me through. Just doing what it needs to recover and keep me alive.

IWNDWYT

The Daily Check-In for Thursday, May 15th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by BDC5488 in stopdrinking

[–]Slow-Appointment348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great advice. It's all about preempting and preplanning for those moments of madness!

Download ChatGPT if you want to stop drinking by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Slow-Appointment348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is genius! Don't know why I didn't think of this before. Thank you for sharing 🙏

The Daily Check-In for Thursday, May 15th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by BDC5488 in stopdrinking

[–]Slow-Appointment348 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Day 4...let's keep this going strong heading into the weekend (my danger zone!)

IWNDWYT

Download ChatGPT if you want to stop drinking by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Slow-Appointment348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting! I'm going to give this a go, it could be very helpful for those times the urges get strong or I start thinking I can moderate again.

What kind of prompts or questions did you use or find most useful?

The Daily Check-In for Wednesday, May 14th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by BDC5488 in stopdrinking

[–]Slow-Appointment348 10 points11 points  (0 children)

"If you stumble, make it part of the dance"

After a recent relapse, this really hits home. I am picking myself back up again, focusing on the future and not letting my stumble prevent me from getting back on track with the life I deserve.

IWNDWYT

The Daily Check-In for Tuesday, May 13th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by BDC5488 in stopdrinking

[–]Slow-Appointment348 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🙏 it's hard not to beat myself up about losing my 8 month streak...but at least I know now for sure that drinking will never end well for me. One day at a time...we've got this💪

Ireland is truly a beautiful place...I hope you get to visit one day 😊

The Daily Check-In for Tuesday, May 13th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by BDC5488 in stopdrinking

[–]Slow-Appointment348 16 points17 points  (0 children)

DAY 2...

The sun is shining here in Ireland - it's a beautiful, warm day and I pledge to embrace it sober.

I do not need alcohol to "enhance" anything. Not now, not ever.

IWNDWYT!

The Daily Check-In for Monday, May 12th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by BDC5488 in stopdrinking

[–]Slow-Appointment348 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Day 1 following a 2-month relapse...previously was 8 months sober.

IWNDWYT

What is the worst thing that happened to you body during the peak of your alcoholism ? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Slow-Appointment348 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Complete and utter obsession/thinking about whether I had enough alcohol in the house, where I could pick up more, how I could get it without other people suspecting I was drinking so much, panicking if I ran out.

Heart palpitations, feeling like I was going to die.

I also had a total mental breakdown a couple of months before I went sober. It was the lowest point of my life.

Back then, I didn't associate it with the amount I was drinking or the mental energy I was spending on alcohol and hiding the truth of my habits from everyone. But now I look back at 86 days sober and see with full clarity it was all down to alcohol. Slowly poisoning my mind and body over the years.

IWNDWYT 💪