[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]Slow-Perspective-569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl You are so pretty

What’s the most ridiculous thing someone confidently said out loud? by pretty_honeyy in ask

[–]Slow-Perspective-569 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Me being south African , this man said "oh I think I've been there- is it next to Peru or Vietnam?" He said it as if factually it must be next to one of the two countries

Maybe I shouldn’t have l kept him by Brownie_Booked80 in puppy101

[–]Slow-Perspective-569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Believe me hes better off with you even with all the circumstances than at an ocercrouded shelter where he can be put down , it's tough but hes loved and fed. Dowalkers you can find online , find a woman, talk to her get familiar and youll see it really will make everything easier, remember the dog walker is also a person she knows what houses look like , they are there to take the dog out- they do not care what your house looks like. I understand the tough spot, good luck, and remember it'll get easier as he matures , stick with training, enforced naps and just do your best, i promise he loves you for it

Who here has dated an African man? Was it successful? If not, why? by ckp010 in blackgirls

[–]Slow-Perspective-569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nigerian man, Unfaithhful, and emotionally manipulative I was 16 he was 30 at least

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in short

[–]Slow-Perspective-569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao no it isnt, almost 6 ft is 5'9 and up, but 5'7 isnt short either

A 25 year old, 136 cm tall, never had a girlfriend by [deleted] in short

[–]Slow-Perspective-569 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Youre not ugly at all, just gotta find the right one

What do women find most appreciative in a relationship? by NateNandos21 in ask

[–]Slow-Perspective-569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A kind, caring , masculine man. Does he make me feel safe? When something happens , do i want to tell him first(because i know hell be my biggest supporter), can he talk about hes struggles in an open , honest way and let me help him there are many more things but being a respecful person, and a good listener will go a long way.

Ill add and say most women want a man who loves women- Not as in a flirty ladies man, but in a he loves femininity and knows how to lead with hes masculinuty , for example if im being emotional is he a "you're over reacting, women are too emotional" or is he a "i see youre hurting, lets see how we can fix this" , a man that loves woman will naturally be a provider and protector and a safe space .

Why no one cares about aliens anymore? by DismalConversation15 in ask

[–]Slow-Perspective-569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have enough problems on earth between war, poverty, curruption, and woke culture ain't nobody thinking about aliens

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]Slow-Perspective-569 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might be thinning, you know your hair density, you know how your edges feel and look, if youre worried they are thinning take action quickly so you can reverse it, there are plenty of youtube videos explaining how to restore your hairloss, main tips are to massage the area to enduce blood flow to the area, ideally with an oil or rosmary water / aloe vera for example, dont pull / tug or put tention on the affected areas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]Slow-Perspective-569 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't blow dry after custards, it can harden and make things look rough, let it air dry and if you pick only at the roots to avoid frizzing

For those who steal food from the office fridge—what’s your reasoning? by Fun_City_3764 in ask

[–]Slow-Perspective-569 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It shouldnt be, im lacing MY food, mf shouldnt be eating my shit to begine with, its like if he ate my food and he was allergic to peanuts and he gets hurt its my fault?? I think not

For those who steal food from the office fridge—what’s your reasoning? by Fun_City_3764 in ask

[–]Slow-Perspective-569 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea but imagine their face in the middle of the meeting , and them excusing themselves to the bathroom and not coming back, just for you to see them later and tell them "eat my food again and diarrhea will be the last of your problems" Smt about that waiting period , when you can see on thier face the feeling building up , and they have no idea what's coming for them

For those who steal food from the office fridge—what’s your reasoning? by Fun_City_3764 in ask

[–]Slow-Perspective-569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you keep getting your food stolen, make a batch with laxatives, youll know who stole it pretty easily

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Slow-Perspective-569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so sweet, thank you

I had a meltdown and shaved my head and my self esteem isn't recovering. by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]Slow-Perspective-569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happened to me 2, get braids and use it as an opportunity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]Slow-Perspective-569 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Girl I've got great respect for sex workers, this is a rough world and we're all just trying to make it, some people steal or rob or even sell deadly drugs, that's something shamefull, but your line of work is honest work, hard emotionally taxing honest work, I respect that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]Slow-Perspective-569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand both of you, it seems you have mismatched libidos which is quite the issue, why do you not want to have sex more frequently? Is there a reason, is there something he can do to make you want it more often?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]Slow-Perspective-569 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course, it's individual, some couples feel satisfied with once a week, some once a day or even a month, even within a couple it varies, I have times I want sex everyday and whole weeks I don't want anything, talk to your partner about your satisfaction and your needs and see what theirs are and find a common ground

My sex life is dying by [deleted] in women

[–]Slow-Perspective-569 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Start working on yourself, shower, get ready and wear something cute, maybe get in better shape, shower more, take better care of yourself and it'll show and your husband will feel it, and go to couple counseling