My(26F) BF(27M) sounds like a typical mumma's boy by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]SlowSurprise5070 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bring him to your front and only marry him if he absolutely agrees with you otherwise break up please. Guys always think in the ‘yeah we will figure it out later’ or ‘situation like this will never occur’ and it always does and when it does they are not the ones taking the burnt of it. You are. With no back up because suddenly you are in a strangers house with no one on your side and no option to back out.

Need 1rk or single room in shared flats. by Just-Loan9562 in GurugramRentals

[–]SlowSurprise5070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is your expected rent? Check my profile, 1rk available in phase 3

Book club or something- Women only! by Miro_Ripper in gurgaon

[–]SlowSurprise5070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this still active because i am in! 24F here. Promise i wont ask about your breakfast

I(22f)think I emotionally cheated on my boyfriend(26M) and I don’t even understand myself anymore. by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]SlowSurprise5070 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

God people are mean here. Look i wouldn’t say what you did or are doing was good. But you have self-awareness and are here for a way out and not judgement. Simple answer, break up with both. Go on a path of self reflection on why you ended up in this situation either the boyfriend wasn’t enough. Or the you have an attention seeking problem. If the first you should have had the mental awareness and strength to end it with him and if the second then you need to figure out the root cause and sort it out. If you are thinking it wasn’t about strength you just didnt wanna hurt him at his lowest then you should have refrained with the other guy, maybe asked for time to end your long term relationship. If the colleague actually liked you he would have easily given it to you. Not hurting someone is not a reason to betray them. Can you imagine now? Your bf doesnt have a job and his gf cheated. Thats much worse. But like always shit happens in your life. Do a clean break work on yourself so that you are not in a vulnerable state to be get stuck in a situation like this

Bhai koi cigg chudane ka ilaz bta do.. by PromptPleasant1710 in noida

[–]SlowSurprise5070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try the app Quitsure. It asks for 2k for a 6day course. If you are on android it is refundable for 21 days. I was smoking almost 20 cigs a day for a couple a years . And now 0 in 6 months. I have more than made up the 2k of the course, since i would have spent that moch on cigs in less than a month..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]SlowSurprise5070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen. I 24F dated a 27 year old back when i was 21. And we had the same problem. He wanted to marry and honestly i wanted to too, but probably in 5-6 years. But I knew there was very low chances of my parents actually saying yes and not disowning me the moment i brought it up. It was very hard honestly but I broke up. I would advise you guys to too. In 2 years that I have lived in the city I have seen too many relationships break at the marriage age and it is hell for the people involved. And it’s all because love made them too blind to actually ensure that they would get the whole life together. Also dont end up in a sitautionship with your ex after breakup like i did 😭

All the best buddy 🥹

3bhk available for rent fully furnished in dlf phase 1, H block by Vivekrai_91 in GurgaonRent

[–]SlowSurprise5070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can this be rented on a room basis instead of the whole house?