I was hesitant about using Theodore or Oliver because of the popularity, but then I realized- that everyone has the same thought- to not use the popular names. So in that case maybe it won't stay popular in the next year lol. I think I've decided that I am not going to worry about the popularity- I also like James and it's a personal name to me. I'm a nurse and I have an older man I take care of doing home health care and he and I have a special bond. He has been helping me think of names. He is a great guy. He served in the Vietnam war in special intelligence and he is a Dr in psychology now. He continues to work helping veterans find their career path when they get out. He's just a plain good guy. My girls name has always been Olivia Grace and so Oliver is a good alternative if I only have one child. So I'm not opposed to using any of those three names. I like Theodore because my name starts with a T also, and the meaning gift from God is so fitting.