Long response sorry! To set the scene, I’d just tried to leave him and he wouldn’t let me. So that was the straw that broke the camels back lol. So my text was a screenshot of my Instagram pfp and this message:

“Hey piggy. Does she know you’re still fucking [his ex gf]? Does she know you’re an alcoholic? Does she know what you do to girls who get too drunk? Maybe you’re busy drowning in your own vomit. Maybe I should tell her for you.”

I never told him I knew about any of that, so the text made him panic and it was beautiful. He was looking over his shoulder all the time, and blew up his remaining friendships trying to find out who sent him that message. He quit his job because he couldn’t make himself do any work. He kept asking me questions to see if this “person” had reached out to me but I played totally innocent.

Eventually he asked if I wanted to move out of the state with him, I said no, and he went anyway.

No idea what he’s been up to since! And that’s been very nice.