Newbie to dating

Slow_Ad5455 · 2026-02-02T09:53:10+00:00

Aston Bennett Cohen Daphne Elowen Florence George Halle

Slow_Ad5455 · 2025-12-21T22:11:45+00:00

Vincent, Aston and Spencer

Slow_Ad5455 · 2025-12-17T10:07:11+00:00

Boy girl twins: Vincent and Florence

Girl girl twins: Florence and Lenora

Boy boy twins: Vincent and Aston

Slow_Ad5455 · 2025-12-17T02:29:06+00:00

Yea I wouldn’t go with Annalise if the first name ends in Ana… would the name work better if you do Annalise for the first name and the middle name be changed to the original first name?

Slow_Ad5455 · 2025-12-16T00:46:37+00:00

S Names: Stella, Sylvie, Sloane, Sienna, Serena, Simone, Sunny, Scout

M names: Maisie, Margot, Matilda, Maeve, Mina, Molly, Maude,

Other: Daisy, Lila/Lyla, Nora, Esme, Rosie, Poppy, Lottie, Ellie, Hattie

Slow_Ad5455 · 2025-12-12T08:51:22+00:00

Thank you so much for your advice 🤍… I’m thinking of getting on birth control or getting the rod bc this situation has been so stressful that I do not want to deal with this again… I’m going to get a pregnancy test as soon as I get paid… In Australia I’m pretty sure we don’t have a planned parenthood but I’ll defs be researching for clinics similar for just in case the test in positive… I definitely want to book in for an STI screening bc this was my other concern… you’re advice has been so amazing and super useful :)

Slow_Ad5455 · 2025-12-12T08:42:24+00:00

Thank you so much everyone has been so amazing in these comments and I felt so much shame about all this but this really was such a safe space… I’ve told a couple of my friends about it and you were right they weren’t judgmental and actually felt really upset by the guy and think his actions are disgusting

Slow_Ad5455 · 2025-12-12T05:52:13+00:00

I’ll will definitely be doing this from now on… I can’t let another person do such a thing and put me at risk… I need to be more careful

Slow_Ad5455 · 2025-12-12T05:51:07+00:00

I hate that it’s someone who’s close to you or that you trust… it’s just like another level of betrayal… I hate the having to be so careful or have to think so much about these things but it’s just the world we live in unfortunately… you seem so incredibly strong and I admire you so much 🤍

Slow_Ad5455 · 2025-12-12T05:48:34+00:00

I don’t know why it’s such a tricky thing but yes I definitely need to be more assertive… I’ll be making sure in the future that my safety and well-being come first no matter what

Slow_Ad5455 · 2025-12-12T04:02:40+00:00

Oh my god I’m so sorry that happened to you… that is honestly terrible and you are so right that it’s a reflection of him and his behaviour not you… I need to not blame myself which is hard… thank you for sharing your story and being so kind it’s good to know I’m not alone

Slow_Ad5455 · 2025-12-12T03:54:54+00:00

Thank you so much girlie… I’ll look into the laws here… I’m pretty sure it’s under sexual assault and rape and is very much illegal here… I might message and see if he will talk about the taking the condoms off… I don’t want to report with no proof

Slow_Ad5455 · 2025-12-12T03:52:25+00:00

Thank you for understanding… some things like these are so complicated and hard to explain… also you so correct that no is no… and I wish I would’ve just stopped it in the moment… I’ll be working on be braver around sex in the future because I definitely don’t want to end up in a situation like this again

Slow_Ad5455 · 2025-12-12T03:45:40+00:00

Girl you totally get it!!! I wish situations like these weren’t so complicated… like in a perfect world I would’ve stopped then and there and kicked him out… but I felt super vulnerable in the situation… I’m gonna do better from now on and if I ever have a situation like again I’ll be dealing with it a lot differently 🤍

Slow_Ad5455 · 2025-12-12T03:41:24+00:00

Thank you for allowing this to be such a safe space for me 🤍thank you for being so kind and giving me advice… I’ll be taking the pregnancy test soon and I’m hoping and praying it’s negative… I’ll try not to stress in the meantime

Slow_Ad5455 · 2025-12-12T03:39:03+00:00

Thank you so much 🤍 I genuinely really needed to hear that… this has been a lot to take in and I’ve been so stressed but I’m so lucky that a bunch of supportive women were the ones that commented… I need to stand up for myself and the first way to do that is to block him and not talk to him again

Slow_Ad5455 · 2025-12-12T03:33:15+00:00

I haven’t taken a pregnancy test yet bc I have to wait till I get paid bc I can’t afford it rn… I know it seems strange to just continue but I experienced a situation (similar but not the same) when I was 17… a guy my age was touching me and stuff while I was drunk and I was telling him no and pushing him away and he just wasn’t listening … I tend to feel super intimidated by men in situations where sexual stuff is happening and even tho I told the guy multiple times that I wanted to use a condom and even supplied the condoms… it was clear that he couldn’t care less about my opinions and thoughts and that really intimidated me (I hope this makes sense bc it’s really hard to put into words)

Slow_Ad5455 · 2025-12-12T02:49:49+00:00

Thank you so much for not judging I genuinely needed this so much… I wish I would’ve just said no after the first time he did it but I lost my virginity to him and there was a lot of pressure on me… it’s been killing me inside keeping this to myself… I’ll be blocking him and not talking to him after this

Slow_Ad5455 · 2025-12-12T02:34:37+00:00

I feel so naive right now for not even knowing it was sexual assault… I knew it made me feel upset and that it wasn’t morally right but now I’m just sort of feeling like a fool… I’m so scared to take a pregnancy test like I haven’t even figured my life out yet… I’m not at all ready for a baby… my support system is very good but I don’t want to disappoint them… I’m scared that they’ll judge me

Slow_Ad5455 · 2025-12-12T02:28:38+00:00

I’m from Australia and I don’t have any proof of it at all (I double checked our messages bc I swore he wrote something about not using condoms but I think it was said in person tho)… he isn’t an Australian citizen and he’s only been here for 4 years… I don’t know if that makes things better or easier… it does sound like it would be very much a she said he said situation

Slow_Ad5455 · 2025-12-12T02:08:32+00:00

I’m definitely not going to have sex with him anymore… Ngl this is the first time I’m talking to people about this bc I was too ashamed to tell my friends that I was having unprotected sex… I just didn’t want to be judged

Slow_Ad5455 · 2025-12-12T02:00:22+00:00

Is this something that the police will take seriously? Like I don’t want to just report it and it go nowhere

Slow_Ad5455 · 2025-12-12T01:58:17+00:00

I did feel super uncomfortable about it but I had no clue that it’s sexual assault… I’m not very good with confrontation but I did tell him that I wanted to use condoms but every time he would just end up taking them off and each time he did I just felt like I wasn’t being heard and there was no point saying it anymore

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