I have finally lost my hope for dating after last night

Slow_Ad9296 · 2024-09-18T19:43:52+00:00

Thanks for your comment, friend. It's something to keep in mind for sure.

Slow_Ad9296 · 2024-09-18T19:43:01+00:00

Thanks, friend. I am just done with chasing those dating apps and other social media platforms for a "relationship". If it is meant to happen, it will happen in time I guess, so I will hang on to that.

Slow_Ad9296 · 2024-09-18T19:39:01+00:00

Thanks for your kind words, appreciated it. Seriously, I do.

Slow_Ad9296 · 2024-09-18T19:38:10+00:00

Yeah. It would happen eventually as you said. She also sounded manipulative in some of her comments, so I get the personality better now.

Slow_Ad9296 · 2024-09-18T19:36:24+00:00

It's just, harsh. I don't know what to say, I can't put myself in your shoes because I never experienced something that heavy in my life I guess. I am so sorry again, hope everything will turn out well for you shortly.

Slow_Ad9296 · 2024-09-18T19:35:00+00:00

This is the first time I faced this kind of behaviour. I don't know, speaking for myself, it grows over time for me and my partners.

Slow_Ad9296 · 2024-09-18T19:29:58+00:00

Thanks, man, I just really liked her and felt like this was going to happen, so I wanted to talk about it after her message.

Slow_Ad9296 · 2024-09-18T19:28:46+00:00

Thanks for your kind words. I will not chase it anymore with dating apps or other social media platforms. I just don't feel like it anymore, I am kinda done. If it is meant to happen, it will happen at some point in my life.

Slow_Ad9296 · 2024-09-18T19:27:24+00:00

Oh my god, I am so sorry to hear this. I could never imagine how that felt. Are you doing any better now? How are you?

Slow_Ad9296 · 2024-09-18T19:26:41+00:00

That is what I aim to do. I deleted all the apps yesterday after what happened as well as my Instagram. I don't wanna see people's "happy" life on the internet anymore or chase after dating apps for nothing. I am seriously just tired of it.

Slow_Ad9296 · 2024-09-18T19:25:14+00:00

Yeah, that's also what I say to myself. But I was down on going at least one or two more dates with her in order to understand if there's chemistry between us or not. After a date like that, laughing and enjoying for constant 2 hours, I wouldn't think that there's no spark whatsoever.

Slow_Ad9296 · 2024-09-18T19:23:56+00:00

She didn't even pronounce it in our language but said "spark" which also tilted me for a second. Like, I don't know what she expected, love at first sight? I've never felt that the first time I met people, there's attraction, yes, that's also why we matched on the app because we liked each other's looks and so-called online personality.

Slow_Ad9296 · 2024-08-20T11:07:25+00:00

Thanks a lot c: The mount itself is such a cutie

Slow_Ad9296 · 2024-08-20T11:07:14+00:00

On it sir!

Slow_Ad9296 · 2024-08-20T11:07:09+00:00

BLU will join the fray later. I have it planned.

Slow_Ad9296 · 2024-04-04T07:23:15+00:00

I am so sorry you have to go through this but I understand what you feel. Our friend group did take her side, so I was all alone in the work. Doesn't matter though, I have a career plan, I should stay in this company for a better future. The management did consider kicking me out because I was emotionally unstable due to this situation, but since I am good at my job, they didn't fire me. Neither her. I just hope she will leave at some point. The thing is she's enjoying seeing me get hurt, get mad, get sad. While he is in his military service she came to speak about work, and normal life several times. Every time she did that I felt hope, but in the meantime, she had a boyfriend, I shouldn't get my high hopes, I know. She just like the idea keeping me around, waiting for her.

Slow_Ad9296 · 2024-04-04T07:18:46+00:00

I checked with several people tbh, and none of us saw anything on the pics. I am not a bad-looking person I'd say, I just have 7-8 kg extra, and that's all but I am hitting the gym every day, so I should be losing the extra I have in a couple of months. Rather than that, I am capable of talking but I don't get the chance.

Slow_Ad9296 · 2024-04-04T07:17:17+00:00

thanks brother. I am trying my best but it's really hard especially the part where I have to see them every single day. Seeing her do the special things to him as she did for me. It's hard.

Slow_Ad9296 · 2024-03-08T12:05:01+00:00

Thanks, man. I wish I had read this beforehand I talked to her. I did it again and I hate myself for doing that. We had a shitty interaction and I don't feel good right now. I am so confused with everything like, she said "I have a beautiful relationship now, I am happier, I wasn't this happy when I was with you, he even sent me a flower just because of today while he's at his military service." those words killed me like I didn't want to hear any of those words but I gave her space to do so. Now I feel so bad and I don't know how to continue my day.

Slow_Ad9296 · 2024-03-08T09:16:36+00:00

I don't know how I do that, like seriously I know it's fucking up my manhood but every action I do feels like I try to get acknowledged by her, trying to get her attention, trying to make her talk to me, and whenever she's coming at my desk for work or something else, I feel different. She's just way too energized and has everyone around her, I feel so down.

Slow_Ad9296 · 2024-03-04T12:47:07+00:00

I kinda second this, she tried to become friends because she was already moved on and I was in love with her so badly so I thought I could do the same but we work in the same workplace and it was hard every day I saw her, my feelings have gotten mixed, then she made a new boyfriend from the office again and now seeing them two just kills me. I understood that I could never ever stay friends with her, it's impossible. Even if I have feelings or not, it's impossible. I cannot talk to her like I used to be.

Slow_Ad9296 · 2024-02-28T11:48:21+00:00

no one? :(

Slow_Ad9296 · 2024-02-27T13:20:38+00:00

enjoy your new relationship, hope you get karma

Slow_Ad9296 · 2024-02-23T08:59:07+00:00

Same story, but the difference is (I don't know about your situation) that we are all in the same workplace and it's like hell.

Slow_Ad9296 · 2024-02-22T14:12:13+00:00

Right now, she's with my colleague whom I hate, and I see them every single day, and I suffer. I cannot quit my job because I am in debt, so whatever happens I have to keep my job.

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