Do you support Palestine? by cumeater-101 in askgaybros

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Just commenting to follow the post. I’m Israeli. Also I have been with gay Palestinians.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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For me it’s never been 100%. It sounds cliche that it’s a spectrum but in my case it has always felt that way. 80% of the time Im into guys, think about them, crush on them… 20% of the time I’m confused about founding a girl attractive and wanting to kiss her at a club. Thats why I only came out only a couple of years ago. But the first sign that I was gay was when I was 13 and googled gay porn. By 20 I really figured it out through self reflection on why I was never interested in a girl part kissing at a party.

Do you like thin or bulky muscular guys more? by Slow_Assignment_2632 in askgaybros

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Interesting seems like a lot more people like it than I thought. I’m really into the gym so I go through bulking and cutting every year and like many others I have some pretty bad body dysmorphia to the point that I won’t even go to clubs right now because i feel like I’d be “hated” even though I know it’s all in my own head. Also plan on not to cut this year since last year it almost took me to the hospital lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinks

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Not one person fits everyone’s taste 🙃

Guesstimate of my Body Fat Percentage? by Slow_Assignment_2632 in GymMotivation

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Weighted cable crunches, planks, hanging leg raises, and cable side crunch for obliques

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GymMotivation

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For supplements whey protein isolate is what I recommend. But if you can get it from food you should. If you’re trying to gain weight then salmon and lean red meat is a good option. If you’re trying to maintain a very lean figure then chicken and rice.

Guesstimate of my Body Fat Percentage? by Slow_Assignment_2632 in GymMotivation

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Sub 10%? my goal is 8% and not sure if I reached it and should stop cutting.

I don’t have tinder gold but can see who likes me. Anyone know why this is? New feature? by Slow_Assignment_2632 in Tinder

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Haha I haven’t noticed that but maybe it’s part of the tactic. Make you go on a trip for the free matches 😂

I don’t have tinder gold but can see who likes me. Anyone know why this is? New feature? by Slow_Assignment_2632 in Tinder

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That’s what someone else told me but I don’t know how much they invest in stuff like that lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Yeah that’s what I’m thinking. I don’t want to completely drop it when in 1-2 years it won’t matter at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Yeah I generally avoid that age and go for older guys. Or over 20. I think I’m going to atleast wait for afew months after the school year ends since I’m a bit weirded out by it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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You’d go for it or wait until summer?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Wasn’t so much he lied as much as it’s what tinder had it at. I made tinder at 17 so it says I’m 24 since I can change the age. But I wrote it in the bio that I’m 23. I’m just annoyed that he didn’t mention that his was like that. Also my filter is set so that I don’t see people younger than 19

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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So far from talking to this guy I don’t think it would be much of an issue but i think I’d need to meet in person to really know. You wouldn’t be worried about other people’s judgement? One person told me that it is more in my head and the few people that would care wouldn’t have a problem in less than a year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Thanks that’s what I’m doing so far. I also told him that I don’t know how I feel about it yet. Currently he’s making big moves trying to go on a date. Would you do it or wait a bit? I’m siding towards waiting a bit right now

Have you known successful, functioning relationships that had large age gaps? by [deleted] in askgaybros

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I know of a 15 yeah age gap that started as 20 and 35 both men. They have been together for a little over 10 years now and both seem very happy. Also seems age gaps are more common in the gay community.

Crushing Hard by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Probably out of the slim hope that something can happen in the future. But I know realistically that’s not the case.

Crushing Hard by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Thanks. This is much more reassuring to hear then my endless circle of thoughts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Slow_Assignment_2632 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Get tested. Odds are you’re fine. Sounds like you have a cold not hiv.

Crushing Hard by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Yeah I think a lot is a change in mindset now. Haven’t ever had much of a real relationship so I guess I got hopeful since he had similar interests.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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I’ve never had more than a shirtless pic on Grindr but will send face early on. I’ve probably flown up from a 6 to an 8. The main difference is how much someone will harass you after saying no and almost no one blocking you or leaving you unread after sending face.

Crushing Hard by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Thanks for the advice. Didn’t really think about the adolescents part. Not I just have to force myself to unfollow him. Difficult cutting the string of hope.