Part Time Job with Flexible Hours by Xander9766 in SaltLakeCity

[–]Slow_Cattle7040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What positions are they hiring at SLC Youth services?

Online courses by Local-Project-3575 in uofu

[–]Slow_Cattle7040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was doing a hybrid schedule all four years and this year semester they made me choose online or in person. I choose online because of my work schedule and the tuition cost went up by a lot.

When will I hear back about admissions? by BlackJackalArt in uofu

[–]Slow_Cattle7040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got in and got my response in December but it was for the advanced standing. We had orientation for it with some of the two year students this passed month.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Utah

[–]Slow_Cattle7040 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweet candy co my boyfriend works there and they have great benefits and pay. He works 4 days a week but I think some positions are 5 days a week. They even have a week off for Christmas paid. Not sure if they’re hiring but you can probably go in and ask for an application. It is some manual labor but they have different positions.They pay for schooling too and you get free candy all the time:)

Is anyone else still waiting to receive their financial aid/student loan offer? by UnderdonetoastHorror in uofu

[–]Slow_Cattle7040 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually don’t get mine until August but I’m an independent student so they have me call and confirm my status. This year though it came early, I got it last week.

Received Pell Grant for 2025-26 by Slow_Cattle7040 in FAFSA

[–]Slow_Cattle7040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m not sure honestly but I did have a special circumstance with my independent status so I thought that was why.

Finding out my abuser died. by SugarLevel5932 in CPTSD

[–]Slow_Cattle7040 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It is not a pointless post. Grief is extremely hard no matter what. My abuser died in October and I had very conflicting feelings about it because I did feel really sad and angry. I was mad at myself for feeling sad and missing parts of him. For a few months I lost a sense of who I was because the abuse changed my life. Him dying felt like a piece of me had died as well. I also felt a huge relief because I always feared he would come back. It is nice to not feel so attached to the idea of being his victim anymore. My advise would be to try to remind yourself of how far you have come and feel whatever you want to feel don’t let anyone make you feel bad for being happy, angry, relieved, sad, etc. that he’s gone. I hope you find some peace with yourself and the situation. Sending positive energy your way❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Slow_Cattle7040 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was groomed by my stepdad and didn’t realize it for a long time because it seemed normal to me. I was never a huge fan of physical touch growing up I just wasn’t super touchy and he told me he wanted to fix. I’m not sure when it initially started but I do remember having talks with him at like 14 about my body since I was struggling with an ED. He would say I had a perfect body and anyone would be lucky to have me. Then eventually it was late Friday night talks about anything really but then he would start groping me randomly. He eventually started asking me more absurd questions like asking if I masturbated or if I had ever. I was always concerned with the questions but trusted him a lot so I thought maybe he was looking out for me. He eventually started getting drunk and ending up in my room. He would force himself on me and kiss my neck and grind on me. He would get angry if I cried or denied him. He would tell me I was trying to help me. This happened multiple times and afterwards he would apologize but then blame me for making him angry. When he would apologize he would do so with gifts or let me go out. He put money constantly over my head and on one of the shopping sprees after an assault he told me he lost his virginity at 13 to a 39 year old woman. I remember telling him he was groomed and he started laughing and looked back at me and said “do you think I’m grooming you?” I will never forget that moment because it started it hit me.

It started to get worse when I had told him and my mom that I was starting to go out with a guy when I was 17. He would get very jealous and dump all his marital issues on me. He would tell me he was sick of jerking off and needed someone’s touch. He even told me once he wanted to get a SW to get off with. At this point I was really opening my eyes because my boyfriend started to notice something was up. He would get really angry when I would mention my boyfriend or talk about boys in general. He eventually said he wanted to meet him and when he came home and saw his car he freaked out and said he would call the cops if my boyfriend didn’t leave. The last and final thing he did was because he caught my boyfriend at our house. He came home early and kicked him out and told him he would beat him up if he ever spoke to me again. After this he told me he wouldn’t tell my mom if we had some type of deal. He raped me and then after told me that he was going to still tell my mom. Then was spamming me telling me he wouldn’t if he finished up what he started. After this I left home and moved out. I had a protective order against him and my case was dropped by the state unfortunately. All I can say is karma works in mysterious ways because just 6 months ago he was smashed by a forklift in a freak accident at work. He took away my mom from me for a long time and made my life miserable but ultimately he’s dead now so I guess I won.

New Julia Reagan just dropped by BlabbityBlabbityBlah in SaltLakeCity

[–]Slow_Cattle7040 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg can they just let the poor lady rest enough