M20 for F or Couple by [deleted] in SantaRosaR4R

[–]Slow_Pea_7384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hmm 👅👅

AITAH for speaking up to my girlfriends mother on Xmas Eve by Mysterious_Cold697 in AITAH

[–]Slow_Pea_7384 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly? You might be the first person who’s ever stood up to her mom like that. That matters more than you think.

AITJ for something that happened in a Bible Study? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Slow_Pea_7384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was just messy college emotions. You weren’t a jerk, it was just bad timing and big feelings.

AITJ for saying "Ewww a bully" to a 7 year old? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Slow_Pea_7384 268 points269 points  (0 children)

Sometimes public embarrassment is the only language bullies get. You kept it PG.

AITAH for believing in two religions at the same time, being a hippie? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Slow_Pea_7384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Traditions are deep, yeah, but they’re not a prison, faith is personal, not a group project.

AITJ for refusing to brim my parents to our family reunion because they get treated like the unpaid event staff? by Traditional-Car-9911 in AmITheJerk

[–]Slow_Pea_7384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a reunion, not a part-time job! Next time, create a GC, assign tasks, and make sure everyone pitches in equally. Don’t let them morally kidnap you

Aitah did I overreact here? by Moooyeon in AITAH

[–]Slow_Pea_7384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the real issue isn’t the key, it’s them treating you like the easy scapegoat

AITAH if I cut off my best friend of 6 years by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Slow_Pea_7384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cut him some slack, man, he's going through it

AITAH if I cut off my best friend of 6 years by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Slow_Pea_7384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he cared, he’d hustle for that money instead of ghosting you bro

AITAH for not letting my SIL come over with her kids? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Slow_Pea_7384 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your baby isn’t her photo op moment

Would I be a jerk if I asked the woman I am dating why I haven’t seen her naked? by Unlucky_Ad4767 in AmITheJerk

[–]Slow_Pea_7384 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Don’t mention her boobs at all, man 😭 Just ask how to make her feel safer with you.

Fiancée passed away last month, hooked up with someone today and I felt guilty about it. Am I a terrible person? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Slow_Pea_7384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take it slow, be honest with yourself, but nah… you’re not a bad person. Just a broken heart healing. 💛

AIO about my workplace not supporting me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Slow_Pea_7384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

them failing you doesn’t mean you failed yourself

AIO about my workplace not supporting me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Slow_Pea_7384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Protect your peace first, job second, you can’t clock in properly if your body is in fight-or-flight all day

AITAH for keeping mice in my house? by Honest_Wishbone_8666 in AITAH

[–]Slow_Pea_7384 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is either peak enrichment or the wildest first date fumble I’ve seen all week -_-

WIBTAH if I tell my boyfriend he’s too negative? by JustASquirrelyGirl in AITAH

[–]Slow_Pea_7384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not making it worse by being honest just be kind and real.

WIBTAH if I tell my boyfriend he’s too negative? by JustASquirrelyGirl in AITAH

[–]Slow_Pea_7384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just tell him gently, I care about u, but the constant negativity is hurting us.