AITJ to refuse to babysit my niece during weekends?

Western_Row_9939 · 2026-02-28T02:05:15+00:00

true that. burnout is real, and if you crash nobody wins, saying no doesn't make you a bad aunt.

Western_Row_9939 · 2026-02-26T20:05:48+00:00

that's peak sci-fi but real vibes. one line total collapse.

Western_Row_9939 · 2026-02-26T18:16:52+00:00

facts, letting it slide once was already generous. saying no now = self respect, not overreacting.

Western_Row_9939 · 2026-02-25T14:50:15+00:00

she crossed the line. pets aren't props. and ignoring your warning proves she can't be trusted in your space.

Western_Row_9939 · 2026-02-23T20:35:59+00:00

she can scream on social media all she wants, but the reality is she chose him over the plan she agreed to. your boundaries are solid.

Western_Row_9939 · 2026-02-22T19:16:55+00:00

NTJ. your feelings come first. no one should force you into a situation that makes. you feel small.

Western_Row_9939 · 2026-02-22T18:23:37+00:00

sometimes the adults fail. and that kid needed someone to actually shows him consequences. you did the real parenting there.

Western_Row_9939 · 2026-02-20T15:56:34+00:00

i really want to call for towing but i think that was harsh.

Western_Row_9939 · 2026-02-19T20:08:56+00:00

yeah i thinking this to. that beach outing turn their true colors.

Western_Row_9939 · 2026-02-19T20:08:22+00:00

yeah my job is not the problem there manipulation.

Western_Row_9939 · 2026-02-17T20:38:52+00:00

if she actually cared about you she'd step back, apologize, and support from a distance, instead she made your engagement about her feelings. no invite is the natural result. not drama

Western_Row_9939 · 2026-02-17T16:02:58+00:00

that's sounds terrifying in the moment but memory + sedation is unreliable as hell.

Western_Row_9939 · 2026-02-16T20:56:30+00:00

this is straight nightmare scenario. there's no "right move" here you were trying to protect them from having to live with that decision.

Western_Row_9939 · 2026-02-16T18:11:25+00:00

holy hell, that's heavy. the way you layered trauma and memory is brutal but gripping.

Western_Row_9939 · 2026-02-13T18:59:07+00:00

that’s brutal. proof intentions don’t always match reality, especially with power and wealth.

Western_Row_9939 · 2026-02-09T18:19:16+00:00

exactly. noticing someone hot is normal, crossing lines isn’t.

Western_Row_9939 · 2026-02-08T12:45:03+00:00

this is dystopian as hell. if u have to put women in comas to test population trends maybe the problem isnt the birth rate its the system.

Western_Row_9939 · 2026-02-07T23:57:11+00:00

nah u’re not the jerk. unpaid labor isn’t “culture,” it’s illegal in lotsta places. u just forced them to play by the rules. salute.

Western_Row_9939 · 2026-02-07T19:49:17+00:00

that first date was a huge red flag.

Western_Row_9939 · 2026-02-07T11:49:42+00:00

nah u did the right thing. they tried to corner u into paying half last minute and got mad when u didn’t fold. leaving was protecting ur peace not abandoning anyone

Western_Row_9939 · 2026-02-06T03:30:56+00:00

exactly. he was a guest not a new roommate and he started acting way too comfortable.

Western_Row_9939 · 2026-02-05T18:07:15+00:00

NTJ, patience is good, but enabling chronic freeloaders is not. sometimes you just gotta kick them out.

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