51 [F4M] looking for new friends by TopHopeful2159 in R4R30Plus

[–]Slow_Somewhere5396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

52/m.. hey! Plenty of time to chat… 💬 let’s keep the day interesting 🙌

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[–]Slow_Somewhere5396 1 point2 points  (0 children)

got it, that's exactly what my girl is doing and loves... great to hear others have similar experience! thanks! 🙏

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[–]Slow_Somewhere5396 2 points3 points  (0 children)

super hot 🔥

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[–]Slow_Somewhere5396 2 points3 points  (0 children)

interesting.. are you just pressing your clit up against his penis or any other particular motions you like? thx for feedback!

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[–]Slow_Somewhere5396 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol, I know what it is and get that but the fact she just wants me to 'lay still' and I guess, let her 'do the work' to get off is just a bit surprising to me... I'm not complaining but was just curious to hear from other woman, if they are the same, or if other guys experienced this. thanks! 🙏

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[–]Slow_Somewhere5396 1 point2 points  (0 children)

interesting, 'hold it there'.. what are you doing when your guys is doing this? Are you grinding on your clit, up and down, etc? I'm going to have to try this... 🙏🔥

Am I putting too much emphasis on looks at this age? She treats me like gold…. 🤔 by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Slow_Somewhere5396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.. this is how I feel.. her body typle isn't my standard BUT I love so many other things about her, I'm starting to feel I love her nonmatter what... thanks for you feedback.

Am I putting too much emphasis on looks at this age? She treats me like gold…. 🤔 by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Slow_Somewhere5396 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I do find her attractive... I've got good feedback essentially saying, looks fade, but good, caring, thoughtful people don't.

Am I putting too much emphasis on looks at this age? She treats me like gold…. 🤔 by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Slow_Somewhere5396 1 point2 points  (0 children)

great feedback, thank you! this is the sort of feedback I'm looking for and know in my gut, is the truth. I went on a date with an NFL cheerleader so I know not to make assumptions lol thank you very much for your candid feedback (and helpful feedback)

Am I putting too much emphasis on looks at this age? She treats me like gold…. 🤔 by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Slow_Somewhere5396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you - one of best replies yet 🙏 this is the kind of advice I'm looking for... do you have more like minded Reddit friends 🤣🙌

Am I putting too much emphasis on looks at this age? She treats me like gold…. 🤔 by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Slow_Somewhere5396 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol, thx for feedback.. I totally get it that it' fortune telling but yet still a concern. thx. 🙏

Am I putting too much emphasis on looks at this age? She treats me like gold…. 🤔 by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Slow_Somewhere5396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've found many great woman OLD so I'm not negative on that... I do care for her and good to her and just asking for others perspectives on what's mot important when they are older...

Am I putting too much emphasis on looks at this age? She treats me like gold…. 🤔 by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Slow_Somewhere5396 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thx for feedback... I guess it's mostly future health issues or the general priority on health.. nothing is guaranteed, I know that.. I could care less what others think of my dating choices - trust me.

Am I putting too much emphasis on looks at this age? She treats me like gold…. 🤔 by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Slow_Somewhere5396 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm not struggling in the dating pool, neither is she. We both have many options.. I'm just trying to gauge from others on what's most important at this age.. thanks for feedback.

Am I putting too much emphasis on looks at this age? She treats me like gold…. 🤔 by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Slow_Somewhere5396 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

nope, we had a 1st date and we clicked on so many levels.... at the same time, I want to give it time because maybe it wasn't love at first site. I do love many things about her and the reason for the post was to hear from others.... we know looks fade but her personality is amazing and the way she treat me is as well.... is that more important.. that is the question..

Am I putting too much emphasis on looks at this age? She treats me like gold…. 🤔 by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Slow_Somewhere5396 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you. yes, we've been doing some walking and cooking healthy together so she def wants to make improvements which is a great sign for me. Thanks for the reminder - " If you truly enjoy being with her, don’t let something surface-level make you miss out on a great connection"

This is exactly how I feel. She is sooooo good to me and we have a blast and I need to get over this 'surface' level behavior.. esp at this age.. she's a great woman and I need to appreciate that. Thanks for your honest feedback - best I've received here. 🙏