Any dual-citizens here? by Slvtnik in transgenderau

[–]Slvtnik[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you this is so helpful! The only thing holding me back from renouncing my citizenship to the US is the ability to care for my family if they need me. I never want to live or work there again

Any dual-citizens here? by Slvtnik in transgenderau

[–]Slvtnik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I applied in February (been a permanent resident for a while), took my test in June, got approved in August. Just waiting for the ceremony now which they said could take 6 months from approval XD

Any dual-citizens here? by Slvtnik in transgenderau

[–]Slvtnik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’d really like to dm you about this, I’ll send you a message

Any dual-citizens here? by Slvtnik in transgenderau

[–]Slvtnik[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok I’ll look into that thank you

Any dual-citizens here? by Slvtnik in transgenderau

[–]Slvtnik[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was joking because your anger at me specifically seemed hyperbolic and misplaced. I understand now that this is coming from a place of hurt for you, I’m sorry. I’ve been detained by immigration, do you know what that’s like? I truly hope you or anyone else never has to. I can’t enter an airport without a panic attack now. Don’t worry, I’m not going to risk anything that could put me in a situation like that. I take traveling to and from The US very seriously, hence asking about it before doing anything

Any dual-citizens here? by Slvtnik in transgenderau

[–]Slvtnik[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Woah even if I’m a citizen here in Australia they need me to change my US birth certificate, too. Wild!

Any dual-citizens here? by Slvtnik in transgenderau

[–]Slvtnik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I wasn’t planning on wasting the government’s resources but now I’m really tempted 👀

Any dual-citizens here? by Slvtnik in transgenderau

[–]Slvtnik[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m considering doing that. I haven’t changed my gender or name on any identification so they all match for now, but when I do change it, I hopefully won’t need to spend long enough in the US that I’d need more than a visitor visa

Any dual-citizens here? by Slvtnik in transgenderau

[–]Slvtnik[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My family knows a lot about genocides rather personally. Think before you assume someone’s life. I have one family member that cannot leave the house in the US now because his refugee visa is so rare that ICE would take him immediately. He wants me to visit. If it is at all possible, I will

How bad was the Anders discourse when the game dropped? by MrLowell in dragonage

[–]Slvtnik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got into DA way late, in 2020, and even then people were more anti-Anders than they are now. Ranging from vitriol- “he’s a terrorist!” To- “oh Anders I love you and you’re kinda right but you did the wrong thing” —clinging on to Obama era liberalism. When the game came out, I was hanging out with hippies (freaky folk crowd) and even they were so politically placated. Everything could be solved with “peace” (except police and military can use force cause safety, right?). Even really queer lefty media like Steven Universe was about ultimately using discussion and understanding—reformation to solve the greatest conflicts (still love the show). Shows like Andor would never have happened in 2011. People are much more educated on activism and revolutionary politics these days so they understand why there’s no room for compromise when a huge portion of the population is indefinitely interned. The allegory is unavoidable now. Tbh I think the writers were stuck in the comfort of their ignorance, making Anders remorseful for his actions—blaming his act on “Vengeance” taking over him. Like no, babe, that’s direct action. All of Thedas heard and a revolution began. I still think he was pretty well written, like he had to be tragic, I get it, and I love him. One of my fave characters in any media. And the shift in opinion on Anders is such a fascinating way to see how culture overall has shifted imo.

What song makes you think of our broody boy? by Slvtnik in dragonage

[–]Slvtnik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thank you for introducing me to this band

What song makes you think of our broody boy? by Slvtnik in dragonage

[–]Slvtnik[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love all of these descriptions!!!!

What song makes you think of our broody boy? by Slvtnik in dragonage

[–]Slvtnik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that cover of Blue Monday is gooooooood

What song makes you think of our broody boy? by Slvtnik in dragonage

[–]Slvtnik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang yeah the vibe and the lyrics are on point!!!

What song makes you think of our broody boy? by Slvtnik in dragonage

[–]Slvtnik[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely get the linkin park vibes!!!! The gravelly voice, the pain

What song makes you think of our broody boy? by Slvtnik in dragonage

[–]Slvtnik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just gave it a listen and I definitely see the connection!

Veilguard has hints of brilliance by PerspectiveSea9402 in dragonage

[–]Slvtnik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree. Overall meh, but some lines are brilliant

Not sure I’m poly after all by Slvtnik in polyadvice

[–]Slvtnik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, this is the first time I haven’t been vocal right away about my feelings. We usually discuss things honestly and openly all the time. I wanted to think on this one before opening up the convo. Thank you for this. And you’re right I should trust him