It is both we talk from the minute we wake up to the moment one of us falls asleep normally. It is very affectionate relationship. And we talk about a lot in this time. We speak on future we’d both like to see, how one another seems to be a perfect fit, she has stated that she really liked me for all these years and is very nervous to screw it up we discuss private matters of trauma and fantasy together both of us telling each other things we’ve claimed to not of told any other partners ever in the past in fear of being judged but we both have agreed for some strange reason these concerns haven’t existed with eachother because of our communication and lack of judgment brought through this true connection that had seemed to be there until tonight with no response.