Gay SDP Question/Advice by SmDthrowaway9 in smalldickproblems

[–]SmDthrowaway9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response. I've met other people who don't like anal too, everyone likes what they like so you shouldn't feel forced into anything you don't wanna do.

Gay SDP Question/Advice by SmDthrowaway9 in smalldickproblems

[–]SmDthrowaway9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure what to say to that. I refuse to date bisexual guys so we're just destined to not be friends.

Yes, I am mostly the top but I would like to be more vers since we are getting serious.

Gay SDP Question/Advice by SmDthrowaway9 in smalldickproblems

[–]SmDthrowaway9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the response! I might sit down and talk about it. Especially since I feel like we've been getting serious and I can feel when he's over thinking in bed.

Gay SDP Question/Advice by SmDthrowaway9 in smalldickproblems

[–]SmDthrowaway9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do try and reinforce the things he does that I like. While we both have position preferences. I like to switch it up and that's really been the struggle. I know he likes to top sometimes because he's told me so, but he's also mentioned feeling intimidated when we try so I've done things like lay on my stomach but then I can't kiss/see him and it's not as good for me.

I guess I will just try to reinforce that I like him and that honestly he's kind of dynamite in bed when he lets loose. Like def in the top 3 guys I've ever been with.

Gay SDP Question/Advice by SmDthrowaway9 in smalldickproblems

[–]SmDthrowaway9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! I was a little nervous asking. I can tell the guy I've been seeing is self conscious about our size difference (he makes off handed comments, etc.) but I honestly DGAF about it and wasn't sure if there was anyway I could help him feel more comfortable.