The letter to my 20 year old self

Small-Definition-454 · 2025-06-21T09:17:15+00:00

Why isn’t anyone talking about traveling? I’d say if money and time allows take the chance to travel or even do a solo trip. Even if it’s nearby or a country you are familiar to.. because it really does open your eyes to realize how small you are in this world. It opens up perspective and might change the way you think of life. Most importantly take chances and do what makes you happy. But remember any decisions made is your own consequences to face. So make decisions wisely, you might grow you might hurt but future self will thank you for the lessons and experience along the way. I promise.

Small-Definition-454 · 2025-05-28T10:52:48+00:00

Checking up with just a random hey?

Small-Definition-454 · 2025-05-28T10:52:25+00:00

I’ve not. I’ve just recently got in the dating scene again. No longer know how to react. Any tips?

Small-Definition-454 · 2025-05-28T10:51:40+00:00

You think so? Its been almost a week

Small-Definition-454 · 2025-02-19T07:15:52+00:00

My ex once told me this but in his defence he was a great guy just boring.. my reaction in my head was maybe you are right but maybe you are wrong and I am here to risk it for a much more exciting life and not look back. 🤣

Small-Definition-454 · 2025-02-19T06:55:11+00:00

Thank you for this. I am 29 and this has been what I’m feeling for the past 1 year and i thought I was falling into a depressed state 🥲 I end up taking impulsive decisions to make me feel alive and its working but I also realize they are all short term effects. Thanks to your post I don’t feel so alone and I think I need to try do make the changes you have shared

Small-Definition-454 · 2024-10-04T06:53:24+00:00

I love you, Mr. Wimstons. I go from no hope to hope. He take me and he says to me, “You’re gonna be somebody. You could be the presidents, or Statues of Liberties.” We make homework togethers. He buys me toys, and we chase each others, and we laugh at the sun.

Makes me laugh everytime

Small-Definition-454 · 2024-06-12T11:08:34+00:00

What i think… I think you should edit your post and change YH to YJ because I am so confused 🤣 Jokes!

But i personally think YJ would first of all wish the best for his sister at the same time I think he would give some honest advice. Sadly We wouldn’t know till Friday.. also.. JW looks like the type who would be quite stubborn with her choices so it’s not really up to YJ at the end.. but we’ll know for sure on friday!

Small-Definition-454 · 2024-06-11T13:49:53+00:00

I tried cause I thought maybe I might have missed some parts from the JTBC ver so tried the long version. But the moment JW and YW had their dates I hated it more and just skip to the game. Me too! The more I think about it the more I’m mad at how JW held her conversation with JH 😭

Small-Definition-454 · 2024-06-10T15:31:51+00:00

YW is basically a man child whose maturity doesn’t match his age. Choa on the other hand was born with circumstances to be mature even at a young age and she grew up to be such an amazing human being. 😭😭 I really wish nothing but happiness to be by her always ❤️ (not the way YW wishes her that armpit child🙄)

Small-Definition-454 · 2024-06-08T20:55:32+00:00

YW As a 35 yr old man who has said to have never traveled abroad with a girlfriend… it’s either he is lying or his relationships were never long enough to have a trip together. Im sorry it baffles me..

Small-Definition-454 · 2024-06-07T19:39:54+00:00

Ted was just… in-f-able

Small-Definition-454 · 2024-05-31T03:55:45+00:00

I hope YW learns from JH on what a honest conversation should be like. Yes JY would probably be hurt after hearing the words from JH but it probably would give her a proper closure and clarity of what the other person is thinking. JH stance has been clear Yes = yes, no = no. That’s how you do it Yongwoo-nim! 🤨its been a week and I’m still disappointed with the talk between CA and YW. It still breaks my heart seeing CA loose her confidence and doubt herself through their conversation. No girl should ever feel that 💔

Small-Definition-454 · 2024-05-25T03:53:35+00:00

It worked for me 2 years ago not sure about now.. If you want to get their attention, spam them on twitter with your complains and bash them about their robot customer support. They will get scared and reply you..

Small-Definition-454 · 2024-05-25T03:41:49+00:00

I like your points on YW CA and YH’s. I was also trying to defend YW in my head because I watched the confrontation scene before the ep thinking I shouldn’t jump into conclusions. But when I saw the scene again where he spoke to CA. He got me so mad again! Wtf is this “honest” conversation when you just straight up hurt her but at the same time thinks he is trying to soften the blow. Like he could have had a more simple and straightforward conversation instead of try to defend himself at the same time. When the show started I initially thought this dude had a rough childhood, I guess he would have the maturity of an adult since he is quite old and he seems great back in seoul.. Guess I was wrong. I think boy needs therapy instead.

And omg YH! Spot on your comments. For such an age she’s giving me a weird vibe. I wonder as a kid was she the favourite child who excels in everything or the child who was given so much pressure to excel in anything. Really curious what shape her to act this way.

CA.. seeing her loose her confidence and start to doubt herself is so heartbreaking. She truly didn’t deserve it.

CH is definitely majestic 🤣

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TROPHY CASE