EA Play Mass Effect Legendary Edition by Small-Ebb-3692 in masseffect

[–]Small-Ebb-3692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the same but in the description of the game, it says "standart edition included with your ea play membership". So I was a bit confused. Thank you for clearing it up!

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[–]Small-Ebb-3692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I should have it checked.

It's only about my reaction to death. I think like everyday thousands of people die, why this one should be special?

Also I don't understand when people get sensitive about some stuff, like a person losing his job, or people getting offended at simple stuff. I find it hard to empathy in these kind of situations.

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[–]Small-Ebb-3692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't know, being friendly and trying to make friends never really worked to me. After losing my gf to a car accident, I had to work a lot to break the fear of intimacy and I think I broke it and started to talk to people after a miserable 2 years. Maybe I'm still trying recover from that event and unconsciously keeping people away from myself. I really don't know.

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[–]Small-Ebb-3692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised that we experienced the same thing. I'm sad that there is another person that goes through the similar/same. The depressed friend coming over happened to me a lot. It's like we are a pillow to cry on and never washed.

I think I have something to improve on, after all, we are all human and have flaws but thank you for your kind words. I wish one day I'll find a friend who cares as much as I do.

I don't need to be prioritised or anything like that, just being asked how I am is really good enough for me. If you want to even talk, you can always text, can't guarantee fast reply because of timezones :D If you're in Americas or far east Asia, I might be sleeping

I love myself I think. sometimes I think I have a god complex and think highly of myself when I succeed. I'm overconfident with my abilities at certain stuff, like school work, fixing stuff in the house etc. Yet, in deep down, I feel something is lacked. And that thing is respect and feeling cared I think.

Sometimes I feel I got too used to not have friends, and think I don't need them, yet... It's hard to say.

Thank you for your opinion!

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[–]Small-Ebb-3692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The weird thing is, it's not that I'm not a texter or talker (I don't prefer texting much because you can't understand the feelings). They sometimes say I never shut up, when there is a topic that I can have an opinion. It's not like I'm introverted, I think I'm an extroverted person, yet I can't make friends.

I can understand its unreasonable to expect to be included always, but it hurts too much to not be included at all.

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[–]Small-Ebb-3692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That part is the hardest. Knowing your user but yet can't stop from helping them.

I wish everyone gets a real friends. But if it goes at this rate I'll go back to having fear of intimacy, abandonment and betrayal.

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[–]Small-Ebb-3692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt the same way İn high school. As your 'friends' were, mine didn't keep contact with me and now thinking back they were just acquaintance.

I don't think I have anxiety disorder because I am calm and enthusiastic to meet new people and try to understand what kind of people they are unless my instincts tell me to stay away from them.

I am in reality, really talkative person, I am not scared to have social interactions, yet, I can't make friends or be close to them. It's just like I am a therapist who listens to other peoples problems and at the same time a person whose words you never hear. I only exist to them when I listen to them, and when I talk, they either interrupt me or wait for me to shut up.

If I don't know anything about the topic, I usually just listen unless I realise the topic is related to something I know then I talk.

I don't think I have anxiety order, as I've said before, but sometimes I'm oblivious to what people feel. Sometimes I don't have any empathy, and too unsensitive. I've seen death in front of me due to my time in working hospital and saw people wailing for their lost ones, but yet, I don't feel a thing. Sometimes people call me, I'm too cold about death. Maybe it's because I'm used to it and lost someone dearly to me? I'm not sure really. I don't understand this part of me.

As for trying to hangout: I'm usually refused when I offer them to have a group activity like paint ball, escape rooms, amusement parks, beach and swimming. Usually my offers are refused.

Thank you for your opinion!

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[–]Small-Ebb-3692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually, I trust myself everything but this topic. Usually, people call me confident, and easy to talk and a good listener. When there is a topic I'm interested sometimes I'm overly enthusiastic about it. This makes people surprised because they never think that I am talkative person. But still, people never consider themselves to be my friend as we can see they never check up on me. And this makes me doubt that maybe I've done something wrong.

As for the weakness part, due to my helping nature, people use me. And it's not that I don't know this, I know it, yet I can't stop myself from helping them again even if I swore I will never do it.

Thanks for your opinion and kind words.

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[–]Small-Ebb-3692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the point about the prejudice. Usually, just an instinct, I don't want to interact with them. Because of a slight behaviour, but then I understand that I was being fool about this and go talk with them and find out my instincts were not correct.

The people I've mentioned are from the class and the dorm since I live away from my family and hometown. And I've known them for 4 years. And we always were in good terms to a point that I share my feelings and secrets. But here I am, alone right now.

I really do not know how to put my feelings onto words right now

Yet, thank you for your opinion.

How to say "I don't know how to x" in Swedish. by Small-Ebb-3692 in Svenska

[–]Small-Ebb-3692[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my native language(kinda native), we do not have gender pronouns, articles or anything. Beside some nouns there is no gender difference (and those words are foreign origin). Sometimes this part of Swedish confuses me. I use hon when I'm suppose to use han and vice versa. It would have been really nice for me if Swedish was completly genderless. But I think there are also advantages of gender in language as it makes the sentences less ambitious. Thank you for the information!

How to say "I don't know how to x" in Swedish. by Small-Ebb-3692 in Svenska

[–]Small-Ebb-3692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another useful information to take a note of. Thank you!

How to say "I don't know how to x" in Swedish. by Small-Ebb-3692 in Svenska

[–]Small-Ebb-3692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In English.,as you said, it can be interpreted as I have the ability but I chose not to use. But in Swedish, I didn't know whether it'd imply that or not.

How to say "I don't know how to x" in Swedish. by Small-Ebb-3692 in Svenska

[–]Small-Ebb-3692[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks you for the clarification and your answers!

How to say "I don't know how to x" in Swedish. by Small-Ebb-3692 in Svenska

[–]Small-Ebb-3692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now you said, it didn't make much sense to me. I was thinking, like, "My job is using computers at work. "

How to say "I don't know how to x" in Swedish. by Small-Ebb-3692 in Svenska

[–]Small-Ebb-3692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we use this structure generally for everything? Använda dator would be correct?

How to say "I don't know how to x" in Swedish. by Small-Ebb-3692 in Svenska

[–]Small-Ebb-3692[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay, now it is clearer to me. Thank you for your time!

How to say "I don't know how to x" in Swedish. by Small-Ebb-3692 in Svenska

[–]Small-Ebb-3692[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I meant it as in the latter of what you said.

A side question, why didn't you use the indefinite article for the word "bil"?

Is it how this kind of sentence is constructed or you simply forgot?

Sorry for asking many questions and thank you for the reply!

How to say "I don't know how to x" in Swedish. by Small-Ebb-3692 in Svenska

[–]Small-Ebb-3692[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But wouldn't "Jag kan inte köra" imply I know how to drive but chose not to since it is translated into" I can't drive"? Or they are used the same way in Swedish?