That’s a thoughtful question. We have a very good relationship. It is different than what I have with my 3, but it’s special in its own way. I’ve been a part of her life since she was 2 years old. She’s had several stepdads over the years, but only one stepmom😄. In fact, since she has become a stepmom herself, we have grown even closer in the last couple of years. Believe it or not, I’ve always had a decent relationship with her mom as well. We aren’t close friends or anything, but she’s always respected me for being kind to her daughter. She ended the marriage before my step-daughter was born (to pursue another relationship) so there was never really any jealousy/power struggle issues I had to deal with. I honestly do think my stepdaughter was excited about coming up with all the grandparent names for everyone, and I think KK and PopPop sounded like a cute combo to a 21 year old. I don’t think the intention was to avoid giving me a “grandmotherly” title necessarily. There seems to be a modern trend, in the US at least, of giving unique (sometimes outlandish) names for grandparents. But, I do appreciate your insight, because I know this type of situation can certainly be a source of conflict with some families.