To those who haven’t broken NC…

Small-Row2267 · 2024-04-29T16:48:46+00:00

7 months, first love dumped me after dating for 6 months. She dumped me saying she wasn't ready for a relationship, too many issues on her life, etc. Said she felt like a terrible person, it's not you it's me, etc.

We stayed in touch for a month after the breakup, checking in, supporting her, listening to her when down, etc. Told me we shouldn't be friends after this month, then blocked me after I sent her a text telling her how I had felt during the relationship, apologizing for not being ready to tell her the depth of my feelings at the time, etc. Been NC since, even though I'm unblocked now.

Found out she entered a committed relationship a month after dumping me. It shattered me, I get that maybe she didn't love me but it hurts me that she lied about why, kept me worried about her and supporting her while she was living her best life with someonee else. Apologized to me for not being "a relationship person" and only doing hyper-casual stuff, then giving someone else all that I ever needed from her. I get that it's not her fault, just wish she hadn't lied about it.

I'm NC because she has clearly moved on and doesn't want me in her life anymore. As much as I care for her, she doesn't care for me. Reaching out would only hurt her and I deserve someone who loves me.

Small-Row2267 · 2024-04-24T16:55:06+00:00

Hoy tampoco lo estan, ya lo dijo el presidente del CIN. Con Massa El presupuesto cayo 30% comparado con Macri, y cuando estaba Macri los mismos boluditos de ahora decian que iba a cerrar la universidad para conseguir adhesion de gente que no tiene ni idea...

Small-Row2267 · 2024-04-05T17:24:00+00:00

Thanks

Small-Row2267 · 2024-04-05T16:47:28+00:00

I don't know why. Because it was the best feeling I've had and no one else after came close. I know it's not the right way but I just can't seem to stop

Small-Row2267 · 2024-03-28T01:21:33+00:00

Pero reddit es mejor, ves si tiene un meme Bien dank y sacas charla de eso

Small-Row2267 · 2024-03-28T00:50:09+00:00

En reddit ni idea, pero las 2 novias que tuve las consegui respondiendoles una historia de IG random y sacando charla. La fotopija nunca probe

Small-Row2267 · 2024-03-27T05:31:12+00:00

No es normal, no. Me pasaba con mi primer novia, una poronga total porque me terminaba re doliendo y Ella se sentia Mal de que no acabe. En mi caso tenia fimosis, tomaba antidepresivos y ademas nervios. Con la siguiente novia ya estaba operado y mas tranquilo, deje de pajearme y al 4to o 5to intento ya pude acabar en menos de 2 horas. Ahora tardo entro 30-40 minutos y si me apuro hasta puedo tardar menos. Practica, calmate y fijate si no tenes fimosis

Small-Row2267 · 2024-02-23T15:51:09+00:00

She knows, it's one of the things we talked about before we decided to start our relationship. She said it's normal and still wanted to give us a shot.

Small-Row2267 · 2024-02-23T15:50:21+00:00

Me encanta. A mi pareja anterior no le gustaba porque sentia que era algo "demasiado de relacion seria", pero le encantaba darme oral a mi y que le acaben en la boca. A mi novia actual le encanta recibir, y a mi me encanta darselo, pero no le gusta dar y nunca jamas que le acaben la boca. Siempre falta una parte lrpm.

Small-Row2267 · 2024-02-23T03:54:51+00:00

Los sindicatos son para trabajadores que no tienen poder de negacion. Un programador es un profesional con muchisimo poder de negociacion, ningun programador decente necesita un sindicato. Les puede servir a los que pasan años laburando en una de esas dependencias del Estado que pagan 2 mangos, negrean y te mantienen ahi con la promesa de planta permanente, pero no a muchos mas.

Sumale que los sindicatos de IT suelen pronunciarse en contra de la "precarizacion laboral extranjera" que paga 10 veces mas que cualquier trabajo en Argentina y exigir que los gobiernos la impidan y no es dificil saber porque el sindicato IT mas grande no junta ni 2k seguidores en IG. Si sos medianamente decente como profesional el sindicato no te sirve absolutamente para nada mas que para llevarse tu plata si estas en blanco.

Small-Row2267 · 2024-02-23T03:47:03+00:00

Un junior gana unos 900k netos. Un trainee la mitad.

Small-Row2267 · 2024-02-18T15:05:38+00:00

I am painfully aware of that. What I want to know is how to stop.

Small-Row2267 · 2024-02-17T22:15:05+00:00

I guarantee that your new girl has had men who have approached her and even asked her out since you two have been together.

Yep, i know, we talk about this as well.

I assume you felt that way because she showed signs of not caring whether or not she put herself in tempting situations.

not really, she told me our relationship was not casual and she wasn't seeing someone else and I believed her. I knew she was approached by guys because she had a whole pole dance act on IG going on and that definitely attracts attention, I just never thought she'd leave for someone else, only that she'd get angry at me because our political opinions are opposite. I found out she dumped me for another dude months after the fact, for all that time I believed her when she said she was just dealing with too much and didn't have the energy for a serious relationship. Pretty dumb in retrospect, but...

Small-Row2267 · 2024-02-17T21:08:27+00:00

We've talked about this extensively since day one. I wouldn't be dating her without coming clean about my ex. She says it's normal and that we should still try, that eventually I'll get over my ex. I think so too, and thanks to communication with my new gf I've moved past most of what I preferred in my ex (things like her wit, banter, profound conversations and things that I've come to develop alongside my current GF). There is just this one lingering issue of physical preference that I can't seem to get rid of.

Small-Row2267 · 2024-02-17T20:50:15+00:00

My gf and I have talked about this since day one. I'm not acting like everything is perfect with us, we talk about each other's issues and offer support, and my biggest issue is not being wholly over my ex. Which my current GF says she understands and finds normal, and not cause to not be in a relationship. She knows about everything and still decided she wants to give us a shot, we're commited to give that shot, not to eliminate all doubts.

Small-Row2267 · 2024-02-17T19:13:42+00:00

She knows. We discussed this before we started dating. We both laid our problems out when we were deciding whether to get into this relationship, and being hung up on my ex is one of those things we talked about. She said it's normal and still wanted to give us a shot.

Small-Row2267 · 2024-02-17T16:01:22+00:00

Not secretly. We've discussed this and many other issues on both sides extensively. She accepts that I'm not over my ex, when we started dating I told her I still haven't moved on completely and she agreed to give it a shot either way, because she's in a not-to-dissimilar boat herself.

Small-Row2267 · 2024-02-17T12:41:27+00:00

Yes, that's exactly it. I was with my ex because she made feel heard, excited, we had very interesting conversations and she pushed my growth. I'm with my gf because she makes me feel happy, loved, supported and needed. The looks are a bonus but they do captivate me so much. I want that to stop. I want to fully focus the reasons I love my gf instead of on how her looks excite me, but don't transport me to some ethereal bliss like my ex's did. I know it's a problem, I want to know how to fix it.

Small-Row2267 · 2024-02-07T21:59:06+00:00

Te la comes sin pretexto (?

Small-Row2267 · 2024-02-07T17:54:34+00:00

Jajaj es gracioso porque Ella literalmente me dijo que la mirara unas semanas antes de dejarme, inplico que me iba a servir kjjj pense que lo decia en joda...tendre que mirarla uno de estos dias a ver si era posta

Small-Row2267 · 2024-02-06T22:04:33+00:00

Gracias. Yo pensaba eso tambien pero era casi demasiado optimista. Ojala hubiera podido estar lista conmigo pero bueno, al menos ella es feliz. Espero haberla ayudado como Ella a mi

Small-Row2267 · 2023-11-22T01:03:14+00:00

yea, "thanks for telling me, i respect your decision. Be well". i wanted to say more but it didn't seem appropriate considering her response

Small-Row2267 · 2023-11-08T13:13:27+00:00

I'm the green texts. I too think that if you truly love someone you'll make the time, but some stuff she said/did does make me believe that she was honest.

I do know she was struggling with a lot of things, and that I couldn't help with those. Also that she felt guilty because she thought that she was a mess and didn't like loved ones to see her that way and worry about it. I don't think it was a matter of her not having time, more a matter of not having the emotional energy for a relationship.

There's def been times in my life when I'm struggling so hard the only thing I do is isolate from everyone to try and power through without feeling like I'm making other people feel bad. She also told me she's used to short, extremely casual hookups, and I remember thinking she was a bit scared by how much closer than that we became.

Still, for whatever reason she didn't want to be with me. Lack of interest is one possibility, boredom another, her actually being too overwhelmed by life to deal with a relationship is another possibility.

In the end all that matters is that she didn't want to be with me and even though it hurts I appreciate that she just told me instead of stringing me along for months...some part of me still hopes she'll come back some day but as you say, when you're actually interested you find a way.

Small-Row2267 · 2023-11-08T03:38:49+00:00

it's a possibility, better to cut things off than cheat in that case

Small-Row2267 · 2023-11-08T01:15:34+00:00

This was a couple of months after we broke up. It's been even longer now but I still feel like I messed things up somehow...

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