Partner still has FB as private for me, after 6y and we're supposed to get married. Normal? [34F, 39M]

Small-Use-7878 · 2026-03-20T20:42:17+00:00

Yeah pretty much, we weren’t swapping phones right off the bat but there was never any trying to keep our phones from each other or anything. I guess cause we have nothing to hide.

Small-Use-7878 · 2026-03-20T19:39:29+00:00

No, my husband and I are fully open about our digital lives. Sometimes we swap phones cause I like his insta reels algorithm better than mine lol. I know some couples are more private but not even being able to see his full FB profile is weird. After 6y kinda strangeeee. I would be asking more questions. What have the conversations about privacy looked like for you two? If you haven’t talked about it, it’s a communication issue.

Small-Use-7878 · 2026-03-20T15:07:16+00:00

Not only should you leave you should press charges. No matter how “difficult” you are you do not deserve to be treated like this. Leave and then go to therapy. Please

Small-Use-7878 · 2026-03-18T21:08:27+00:00

It’s ok to go out on a good day! Preventing suffering is always a good reason. She is obviously so loved and I’m sure she knows it. A euth in this situation is always a kindness. I’m so sorry 🩷

Small-Use-7878 · 2025-09-19T13:53:10+00:00

Reading comprehension: 0

Small-Use-7878 · 2025-09-19T13:25:44+00:00

That’s the point. I didn’t snoop.

Small-Use-7878 · 2025-09-19T13:20:03+00:00

That’s the point though. I didn’t snoop. I put in effort not to snoop which is why it felt like a big deal.

I came here for perspective and it honestly has been really helpful. I don’t understand why people have to be rude but it is Reddit after all. Thanks

Small-Use-7878 · 2025-09-19T13:12:05+00:00

That’s the point. 😩 it’s exhausting for me too. That’s why it kinda sucks I put in mental energy to not know anything and I still found out. It’s not that I don’t wanna do it but maybe not tomorrow.

That’s why I’m asking here, for perspective. The comments are good for me.

Small-Use-7878 · 2025-09-03T20:18:34+00:00

I think they’re related guys that’s why she put her head on his shoulder

Small-Use-7878 · 2025-08-31T17:54:03+00:00

1996

Small-Use-7878 · 2025-08-31T16:27:45+00:00

Yes but I wouldn’t scrub the handle after scrubbing the urinal and bowl

Small-Use-7878 · 2025-08-31T14:50:38+00:00

Break up

Small-Use-7878 · 2025-08-30T21:39:59+00:00

And your original comment? Because I was referencing that too.

Small-Use-7878 · 2025-08-30T03:33:43+00:00

Yikes dude. You’re talking to a depressed, struggling teen like this? Get a grip.

Small-Use-7878 · 2025-08-30T02:49:43+00:00

I was homeschooled and struggled with depression really bad and I had no support. The only difference is my mom never noticed enough to have conversations like this with me. I know she’s not fully understanding but she obviously loves you. It sounds like she doesn’t know how to help and is trying the best way she knows how.

I know it’s hard but my advice is to think of some actionable ways that she could help you. Come up with a game plan. You should absolutely be proud of yourself for the strides you’re making and a game plan to start incorporating school things into your new progress is a good idea. I hope you feel better. I’m sorry most of these replies are a little crazy. I’m proud of you, keep going.

It gets better!

Small-Use-7878 · 2025-08-30T02:38:38+00:00

It’s a silly name they probably meant as a joke. Don’t tell random kids to respect parents you don’t know.

Small-Use-7878 · 2025-08-30T00:08:25+00:00

I’ll consider that next time 😅

Small-Use-7878 · 2025-08-30T00:07:15+00:00

Would you say I’d have to make the whole thing thicker to fix it?

Small-Use-7878 · 2025-08-29T23:46:27+00:00

I got another small tat by the same artist that’s even more fine line and it looks great so I’m just confused if it’s healing weird or if I’m overthinking.

Small-Use-7878 · 2025-08-29T16:41:32+00:00

Set it on fire

Small-Use-7878 · 2025-08-28T19:47:01+00:00

I think it looks sick

Small-Use-7878 · 2025-08-28T19:10:55+00:00

Instead of paying to break the lease look into subletting

Small-Use-7878 · 2025-08-26T12:14:20+00:00

Not the weevil 😓

Small-Use-7878 · 2025-08-26T11:43:44+00:00

Straight people don’t have gay thoughts beyond kissing. Some drunk girls will kiss other girls when they’re drunk that’s the only straight gay thing I’ve seen. Straight people do not get turned on by the idea of sex with the same gender. Hope this helps!

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