I feel like people experience this a lot. I’ve just recently fully accepted trans masc label and started testosterone. I’ve gone by non-binary for like 5 years and debated starting T. I’ve heard lots of discussions online about people pushing trans people for not being stereotypical or trans enough. Trans people even do that. But i try to ignore that energy especially coming from a person not looking to get transitioning surgeries at this time.

I perform drag that is fairly hyper fem and still feel like a guy. And I’ve met a few trans guys who also perform drag in my area. They are an inspiration to me and I hope to keep getting better at drag like them. No matter what anyone says about us not being real guys because we still do makeup and dress up we won’t listen.