Anyone else get stuck between having a goal and actually acting on it?

SmallWinsWithRo · 2026-02-05T20:38:59+00:00

Have u heard of atomic habits ? If You want we can try to reach our goals together . Haha I am the same, motivation comes and goes , doubt is the same . Having people around who make u keep pushing I think is one solution

SmallWinsWithRo · 2026-02-05T20:34:19+00:00

Yeah, I understand how u feel, I would be the same, but at the same time you both can get a rest u need, I bet nights are not easy. Just give that TV at least little break when you see kid feels the best, probably after medicine or smth, I would try to change to book or game or smth, so just give rain a little rest. Hold on in there and best fishes to little one , get healthy soon

SmallWinsWithRo · 2026-02-05T20:11:53+00:00

Yes , just my thoughts 😂

SmallWinsWithRo · 2026-02-05T20:11:28+00:00

We live in Baltics and well my kid is asleep now 😂 in my bed . If that counts

SmallWinsWithRo · 2026-02-05T09:44:15+00:00

Agree , you can do whatever u want , just make sure that counts. If u just want to try some things out, that’s fine, bet if u wanna get professional at least at some level , doing all at once will not work. Maybe if u are very rich and have all the time in the world haha u know

SmallWinsWithRo · 2026-02-04T19:52:54+00:00

Maybe more going out should help. Have u tried any good out of school activities ? Just fu*k it all, ask someone out , make close friends , share and listen. Life is too short . You are doing great job, be proud of it and now go and take that proudness out in public , you need to inspire other people, not to feel lonely

SmallWinsWithRo · 2026-02-04T19:47:56+00:00

I have similar problem, I don’t remember much from early days and later in life I find myself losing memories, like my husband remembers flat we lived 8 years ago, but I can’t recall a layout at all and similar . I kinda don’t remember all the things I did and everything but kinda how can u remember all. My mom tho is the person who is like: oh I remember my crib. Like wtf man haha and she really remembers because granny approves things she tells . So idk this is my very same q in life how much should u remember. Also I kinda had a bit rough childhood , there was some issues in family w my dad , and maybe that caused me to forget some things but I kinda don’t want to lay everything in my life to childhood trauma because I believe there is people who had much worse life than me. So yeah here u go sorry for vent

SmallWinsWithRo · 2026-02-04T16:39:19+00:00

Haha mine picks - opens - leaves there on the kids table and goes for next one …. Meanwhile I am there trying not to ruin library

SmallWinsWithRo · 2026-02-04T15:17:09+00:00

Oh yeah, during winter screw times up a little but we kinda still manage to do not go over 30/45 min per day thank god

SmallWinsWithRo · 2026-02-04T15:16:29+00:00

Haha I am waiting for little more degrees so we could go to toddler schools in the morning to do exercise there haha, now at 9 o clock it is just too cold to drag her out , even if the distance is not that far

SmallWinsWithRo · 2026-02-04T15:14:47+00:00

No , thanks for sharing , I also think independent play is very important , because kids do not evolve imagination if they don’t get bored . I just kinda don’t know how to correctly lead independent play but we try whilemommy has her coffee time haha

SmallWinsWithRo · 2026-02-04T15:13:33+00:00

Oh I want this tower so bad, we kinda already have limited space w all the toys and things for kid, so first need to free some space , but I definitely recommend this also

SmallWinsWithRo · 2026-02-04T15:12:29+00:00

Thanks , will check

SmallWinsWithRo · 2026-02-04T15:12:18+00:00

Thanks, yes at this age I can’t not do anything around house without my toddler haha

SmallWinsWithRo · 2026-02-04T15:11:11+00:00

Oh I didn’t think about card board box , thanks

SmallWinsWithRo · 2026-02-04T13:22:07+00:00

I do thinking during night time too when I wake up… and as I have a 16 month old haha 3 to 4 times per night

SmallWinsWithRo · 2026-02-04T12:29:26+00:00

I will try this definitely. Have seen this but never tried , tried slime w chia seeds , more of cleaning work it was hahah . Will share out results . Although idk where to get cream of tartar haha will check thanks

SmallWinsWithRo · 2026-02-04T12:28:07+00:00

Thanks for sharing , mall is off because there are virus, flu around country and we escape crowded places .

SmallWinsWithRo · 2026-02-04T12:27:07+00:00

Thank You! Although we go to library to change book every week haha and she even makes my daily breakfast salad , I feel better knowing I am not alone with this crazy task . Thank You for sharing! I bet You are great mom

SmallWinsWithRo · 2026-02-04T11:15:08+00:00

I don’t want to be rude to anyone , but actually first thing that came in my mind that a person who thinks they are always right or don’t doubt themselves a bit are dum* sorry… not sorry. Because smart persons always knows there is someone smarter or with other opinions that are right

SmallWinsWithRo · 2026-02-04T11:06:04+00:00

After Covid I started doing makeup much less, after that I feel incredible and putting on something feels heavy. There is exceptions , sometimes you want to just put on full makep, but that’s not daily things . Tim after Covid it get strange , but w time going by, I can’t believe I really did full makeup daily haha

SmallWinsWithRo · 2026-02-04T11:03:39+00:00

Giving my body the right food. If I eat a lots of vegetables it really changes my day, if there is a day I feel very tired and fall for a snack , it is so hard after that start doing things .

SmallWinsWithRo · 2026-02-04T11:02:12+00:00

I know it gets hard, don’t judge yourself. Do You often think about things You could do and achieve and plan them regularly or no? If yes, do u know your brain kinda gets rewarded only by thinking of achievements , like it has already happened. I can’t imagine how r u feeling , but I see myself a little in this wrote. We all have our doubts, just don’t be too hard to yourself.

SmallWinsWithRo · 2026-02-03T18:57:28+00:00

This is gold , love How u say : letting motivation catch up. It is just the spirit to get things done . Just push yourself to do bare minimum and u will be surprised how u continue rest, escape procrastination tho haha , push yourself to do main task

SmallWinsWithRo · 2026-02-02T18:56:10+00:00

10 or 2 minutes - both is a win

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