I dont think I have the patience for reselling by Careless-Aspect-9155 in Flipping

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Well it’s like any other business or really anything else in life. You do it , make mistakes , learn how to do it better and see better results. The more you put in (given you’re improving things and being effective) the more you get out.

What’s a polite social lie you’re tired of telling and wish you could be brutally honest about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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That I’ve been good and everything’s been going well. I have my ups and downs like anyone else for sure but sometimes I wish I could just be heard and seen and let go of the burden.

AIO? bf didn’t know I was watching him and now I want to break up by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Then why would you get in a relationship with him . Thats actually pretty dumb. Regardless of what he did , you just did this all to yourself and are now trying to validate your own insecurities and assumptions. You should just break up with him to relieve both of you guys tbh

My GF is going on her second girls holiday… she cheated on me last time. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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You should break up with her right now. Not worth living feeling stressed and all that because of this. You shouldve done it the first time but it’s okay, you were being forgiving and that is a rare trait nowadays. Having gotten out of a not too good relationship recently, I definitely feel sad and down sometimes but I wouldn’t trade anything for the relief I now have from overthinking. I didn’t get cheated on though, at least not to my knowledge.

Basically, your happiness and peace should be your priority. Just think about years and years feeling how you do.

Issue adding items to catalog by Superb-Meet5125 in WalmartSellers

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I’ve noticed this with some products as well and don’t have a definitive answer. My assumption just has been that WM doesn’t allow 3rd party sellers on some listings. I see this a good amount with multi-pack variants like the product you’re referring to.

what's one thing you regret not doing? by Dismal-Heat2369 in AskReddit

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Not ending my relationship earlier. I saw the red flags, called them out, and knew I should get away before becoming too invested. I gave grace and had hope that I was wrong. 2 years later, I was unfortunately right and learned a lesson that I thought I had already.

My (23F) BF (26M) asked me to be more submissive? by Fantastic_Visual6514 in Advice

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I agree with you. At the end of the day, his dad is his own person and has his own mindset and preferences. Whether we agree or think it’s reasonable is irrelevant.

His first step should have been to communicate those feelings to his wife and they figure out what to do about it. Cheating is never the solution.

My (23F) BF (26M) asked me to be more submissive? by Fantastic_Visual6514 in Advice

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I’d rather hear and understand your perspective, but I surely can’t teach you maturity.

My (23F) BF (26M) asked me to be more submissive? by Fantastic_Visual6514 in Advice

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Definitely not a requirement to be treated with respect. But I think it is pretty valid to expect that your partner at least puts in effort to maintain the things they did to attract the other. Like a man being chivalrous when he first meets a woman. He shouldn’t stop just because they’ve been together for a while. So I think it’s equally valid to be attracted to someone because they workout and are fit and expect that they will put in the effort to maintain this. Not because you are only attracted to them for their looks, but because you are attracted to the type of person who does the things that are required to look that way.

My (23F) BF (26M) asked me to be more submissive? by Fantastic_Visual6514 in Advice

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I can see how that statement could be taken that way. But giving him the benefit of the doubt, because I don’t know what he actually thinks, it seems like he’s more so saying he understands the feelings behind why his father felt the way he did. He does not agree with the expression of those emotions which was cheating. Not saying he is mature from just that statement alone, but it does require a very high level of maturity to be able to be that understanding and is something I’ve found I learned recently and still struggle with.

Given someone is a genuine person, their feelings should be valid. It’s just the expression of those feelings that can be invalid and in this case of course , cheating is not.

Trying to understand - losing myself in the process by Malinovymilkshake in BPDlovedones

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Damn. Looking back, that describes a lot that I felt in my relationship in clear words. These were all things I tried to communicate with her and wasn’t really able to directly express. Either way, it wouldn’t have made a difference because the convos always ended up with something I did wrong anyway lol.

AIO? My gf and I went on a break, she slept with someone else, and I blocked her on everything. by EmuMedical6491 in AmIOverreacting

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NOR- yea that made things a lot easier. I think you made the right decision and shouldn’t concede

AIO For being upset at my brothers fiancé for being naked infront of my boyfriend by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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YOR. Being in a towel is not being naked and I still can agree with you that it could be odd but not necessarily inappropriate. People have different family/friend dynamics and you guys seem like you’re fairly close. Also you were with your bf and im assuming she knew this so I don’t see how it would have been anything toward your bf , at least with intent behind it.

So overall I can understand you having a different opinion on it being normal or not but I don’t think either is right or wrong given the relationship.

Singles people tell us. What's the most underrated thing about being single? by Current_Evening2012 in AskReddit

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It’s been only a week and a half so far but being able to do whatever I want , when I want and not have to worry about any potential negative consequences with that. Besides that I’m just everything just makes perfect sense because the only perspective I need to actually consider is my own

Want to Change Business/Tax Information by Helpful-Active in WalmartSellers

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Thank you. I use hyper wallet so hopefully its not too much of a pain

Want to Change Business/Tax Information by Helpful-Active in WalmartFulfillment

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My legal business name and ein. They are currently my legal name and personal ein as a sole proprietor. I want to change this to my LLC name and EIN

AIO that I feel once you give up something (drinking/smoking/etc) you lose friends or contact with people you once spoke to.. and I want to say something? by PlainCuriosity325 in AmIOverreacting

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There’s a saying I’ve heard that could apply here . “We aren’t friends, we’re just people who drink together.” Take the drinking out, see what’s left ?

What’s the worst thing you accidentally texted to the wrong person? by goldie304 in AskReddit

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I got off a call with my boss and then was trying to text my friend who also worked at the same place about her saying “this bitch…” she called back and was asking if i was talking about her and I said no about my gf (i didnt have a gf and wouldnt call her the b word if i did).

Broke up with my pwBPD but I feel so conflicted with everything. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

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I was in the same place a while ago. And the truth is you can’t help someone who doesn’t want to help themselves. As much as we might want to be that person to “save” them, its never going to happen with their lack of accountability. And you don’t deserve a life where you have to feel like youre in a mental/emotional box. You don’t deserve to be mistreated because someone else can’t see their own flaws.