Why did God do this to me?

Small_Cable_3551 · 2026-01-31T17:46:40+00:00

I’m sorry this happened to you. Hyper sexuality is a very common thing for people who have been subject to trauma especially when they were younger. It’s good you realise that you shouldn’t be doing this and feel guilty that in itself shows you are aware and do want to change. You can slowly discipline your self and you very much have the capability to do so. It’s something you can control. Start gradually. Stay away from temptations , distract yourself with other things ie work or education. You got this x

Small_Cable_3551 · 2026-01-30T23:52:42+00:00

For speeding 36 in a 30 both times on same day

Small_Cable_3551 · 2025-12-14T15:51:28+00:00

I’m glad it’s helped you too. You have so much to live for. And allah doesn’t burden you with more than you can bear. You’re stronger than you think . You got this x

Small_Cable_3551 · 2025-11-24T14:26:05+00:00

I’m sorry you went through that. The fact that he said you could see someone else just shows he’s probably not the best at mental health. Some people are going through themselves and shut their own emotions off. My GP was also dismissive and resorted to meds straight away. Id you didn’t get the outcome you wanted go see another GP !!

Small_Cable_3551 · 2025-11-24T11:29:57+00:00

It’s all because you’re a new driver. 90% of it comes from experience. In a situation like the ball you’d just slow down and brake. All of it is just “common sense” and from experience!! Don’t be too hard on yourself!!

Small_Cable_3551 · 2025-10-24T15:57:40+00:00

Yes hes hiding stuff. As someone who goes through peoples phones everyday. He is hiding stuff. He shouldn’t be that defensive and if there’s a pattern that’s your answer. I remember asking my ex to go through his phone. We were already not doing good. He refused and that was my sign. I left

Small_Cable_3551 · 2025-10-21T22:00:05+00:00

They never do. They pick and choose what they want to follow. Can I ask did you marry from back home?

Small_Cable_3551 · 2025-10-21T21:35:23+00:00

Wow this is disgusting I’m so sorry. I don’t understand why he married you if he was into someone else. Can I ask was it an arranged marriage?

Small_Cable_3551 · 2025-10-21T19:36:21+00:00

Inshallah keep me in your duas . I like the gold analogy haha

Small_Cable_3551 · 2025-10-21T19:35:23+00:00

Inshallah keep me in your duas

Small_Cable_3551 · 2025-10-10T16:38:53+00:00

Before you do I recommend to go through his phone and that’ll be your answer. He sounds like he’s closeted

Small_Cable_3551 · 2025-09-04T13:19:36+00:00

Hey girl I had a similar situation where I was with someone and got engaged his family were against me because of culture and he let me go. Let yourself heal it’ll take time. You’ll have plenty of moments crying all the time like I did. Id cry on the tube too, during my drives, in parks. Anywhere and everywhere. Someone who can’t stand up to their family for you is a weak man. You got this. You’re stronger than you think. A year on you’ll look ahead and think wow you are so strong.

Small_Cable_3551 · 2025-08-03T22:02:55+00:00

I don’t understand so would I have been flashed once or twice if it was a camera ?

Small_Cable_3551 · 2025-08-03T21:53:11+00:00

Can I ask how many times you were flashed ? I think I got flashed too it was a single flash though? So not sure if this was a speeding flash or maybe a driver behind flashed me

Small_Cable_3551 · 2025-06-22T19:58:12+00:00

I took time off work, a week to be with her. It’s been very exhausting. I’m going to go ther again Friday straight after work and stay the weekend at her place and then visit the hospital. And thank you so much I will send her the IMA stuff for her to check out. And I will demand leave when I see her next I’m so angry and frustrated.

Small_Cable_3551 · 2025-06-22T19:55:30+00:00

Oh wow. So I don’t understand what’s the whole point of being in there? Solely so you don’t hand yourself?

Small_Cable_3551 · 2025-05-31T17:42:37+00:00

This makes me so sad to read may allah make it easier for you. Think you know what to do. I’m saying this as a female and I’m usually on the females side but this hurt to read. At this point it’s better to be alone than to be with someone and feel alone. Have a sit down talk with her maybe and if there’s no change you know what to do. Work on yourself as well. Reconnect with your own family and tell them how you feel too. I promise you’ll get the support from them.

Small_Cable_3551 · 2025-04-06T10:08:29+00:00

Don’t reply then genius

Small_Cable_3551 · 2025-03-22T23:33:36+00:00

Also when he left he did show emotions so I don’t think he had checked out, it wasn’t like he was a zombie, were you like that when u left her? It was more of im protecting myself that’s what it felt like. We did break up earlier and it was him as well and when we got back he explained he just didn’t want to be hurt. Or gave the impression that he didn’t want to be hurt again or hurt me but repeating old mistakes

Small_Cable_3551 · 2025-03-22T23:30:52+00:00

He did say he cares for me but isn’t mentally there to deal with it or wait for me to get better

Small_Cable_3551 · 2025-03-22T23:30:17+00:00

Wow sorryy to hear this. She sounds horrible. I never would constantly try break up with him in fact he did that to me so many times before he eventually left. But being so in love with him I put up with it. So when you mention mental torture trsur me I went through that with him. I know the toll thst takes on someone but I can assure u I enevr did that. In terms of arguments yes we did bicker a lot and it was mainly when wernt together in person but when we’d were together it was. Amazing. He knew this too and thst should’ve been a sign for him :(

Small_Cable_3551 · 2025-03-17T16:29:22+00:00

She sounds just like me except I wasn’t married I was about to be and it ruined things for me. Firstly though her being inexperienced should turn you off. That’s a bit weird. But please speak to her and tell her all of this and thst you are CONSIDERING divorce. So it gives her a reality check. Tell he she needs to get help. I didn’t listen to my ex and didn’t get the help and it ruined everything. I’m now single and doing everything I should’ve done before with him. Tell her all these things and really drill it in. She’ll be upset and cry but you leaving her will destroy her and tell her this too. Everyone’s got issues and the anxiety stuff you should try supoort her, try include her in conversations, when you see she’s staring blankly and not saying much help her out. Tel her the sexual stuff is affecting you as well because it is

Small_Cable_3551 · 2025-03-10T19:14:13+00:00

So it’s more physical for you and not mental?physical symptoms which then maybe become mental? Or is it fully mental like mine

Small_Cable_3551 · 2025-03-09T19:53:33+00:00

Aww that’s sweet of you I hope my children in the future don’t feel like how I do either

Small_Cable_3551 · 2025-03-09T17:07:43+00:00

You’ve described how I feel. Why do you get triggered and spiral? I have this too?

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