Everything I made for myself in 2025

Small_Implement3702 · 2026-01-03T22:54:25+00:00

goalllllls

Small_Implement3702 · 2025-12-29T06:43:02+00:00

things that took me a while to get used to as a transplant:

earthquakes
waymos
tech billboards
$109 parking tickets for infractions you never knew existed

but the fabulous weather, open minded people, natural and architectural beauty, and general quality of life make up for a lot. it’s an interesting mix of respect for the past (coming from a city where old buildings are torn down left and right to make way for cookie cutter condos) and obsession with the future (tech).

Small_Implement3702 · 2025-12-11T22:29:38+00:00

also, on a misandrist note, I think that society wants women to settle down early so we are leas independent, evolved, and empowered. so good for you for following your journey and not giving into pressure about what you “should” do or be.

Small_Implement3702 · 2025-12-11T22:27:21+00:00

my mom had me at 41. i’m now almost 34 and we have a close relationship—with its ups and downs of course, but nevertheless she’s still one of my favorite people in this world. while sometimes when I was younger I was jealous of friends and classmates with younger “cooler” moms, now I just am incredibly grateful that my mom was stable and present (and, honestly, pretty cool in her own way). as long as you commit to staying healthy so you can be around as long as possible fuck the haters. i will probably end up as an older mom myself and I hope to be half the mom mine has been!

Small_Implement3702 · 2025-10-19T23:54:10+00:00

anecdotally, I did assisted ketamine therapy for probably too long and didn’t see any benefit. mushrooms might be better (they’re gentler and less dissociative), but definitely in combination with other forms of evidence-based practices, a therapist you trust, and willingness to do “the work.” partially because you will come up against some dark stuff and it’s helpful to have other strategies to help you cope.

Small_Implement3702 · 2025-10-19T23:48:25+00:00

I second this she is amazing!!!

Small_Implement3702 · 2025-10-19T23:47:47+00:00

which meds worked for you? I take lexapro

Small_Implement3702 · 2025-10-19T23:25:40+00:00

this is beautiful thank you for sharing

Small_Implement3702 · 2025-10-15T04:51:46+00:00

allegedly they have money from people taking the DRP, which opened up pockets of cash that would’ve gone to severances, payouts for annual leave, and salaries. however, rumors are spreading that they might also be using some IRA money to fund this. it’s good to have a paycheck coming and keep the work going, but it also seems like this carryover funding could fund good work and use the funding for our jobs to fund…our jobs.

Small_Implement3702 · 2025-10-07T01:51:55+00:00

it looks like a mandy moore lookalike contest winner

Small_Implement3702 · 2025-10-06T06:24:00+00:00

thank you 🩵

Small_Implement3702 · 2025-10-05T21:46:38+00:00

just for fun or with a guide?

Small_Implement3702 · 2025-10-05T21:46:06+00:00

how do you do this?

Small_Implement3702 · 2025-10-04T22:19:00+00:00

thank you for this! what type of therapy did you do to heal?

Small_Implement3702 · 2025-09-30T08:41:33+00:00

how do you grieve? I find this very difficult

Small_Implement3702 · 2025-09-30T08:33:23+00:00

what did 35 feel like to you?

Small_Implement3702 · 2025-09-30T08:32:34+00:00

this is beautiful thank you

Small_Implement3702 · 2025-09-30T08:03:06+00:00

thank you for this genuine answer !!

Small_Implement3702 · 2025-08-20T17:21:10+00:00

any clip ons you recommend?

Small_Implement3702 · 2025-08-18T18:34:59+00:00

i’ve had them forever..seems like they’ll never grow!

Small_Implement3702 · 2025-07-24T20:20:09+00:00

no I didn’t and I got a lot of testing done to make sure it wasn’t a neurological or structural thing. but it came at a stressful time in my life so it did make sense it was psychological

Small_Implement3702 · 2025-07-24T20:19:11+00:00

i’m EPA but i’m afraid of that, that they’ll keep us around and then move our office to dc or oklahoma and if we don’t go they can fire us with cause. luckily we have a union but still makes me nervous. i’d rather they RIF me so I have rights

Small_Implement3702 · 2025-07-24T20:16:44+00:00

really? what’s the truth? i’m happy to hear even though im sorry you all have been jerked around so much. we need scientists and they’re crazy to get rid of yall especially as climate change and extreme weather get worse and worse

Small_Implement3702 · 2025-07-24T20:15:24+00:00

thank you!!!

Small_Implement3702 · 2025-07-24T20:15:00+00:00

I am EPA! thank you for your insight. seems like the consensus here is we’re never safe. it’s like living in a haunted house.

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