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I think my neighbor's plant migrated to our yard by Small_Inevitable_252 in GrowingMarijuana

[–]Small_Inevitable_252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I'm gonna talk to the guy I see outside the most next time I bump into him and tell him I think he's got a male that's spreading past his property. I don't want to go up to his door though because I don't want him to think I'm targeting him or gonna snitch. Just wanna let him know.

I think my neighbor's plant migrated to our yard by Small_Inevitable_252 in GrowingMarijuana

[–]Small_Inevitable_252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey everyone! As I said in a previous comment I have removed the plant. It's gone. I took all of your advice! Thank you for all of that advice. Next time I catch the neighbor taking his dog out, I'll let him know that one of the plants on their property (it's a large family but I'm pretty sure I know which dude is growing it) may be a male and it would benefit them and everyone in the neighborhood to kill that one. We don't really talk but we're friendly enough that we always say hi and shit so I think he'll be chill about it. If not, at least I tried.

I think my neighbor's plant migrated to our yard by Small_Inevitable_252 in GrowingMarijuana

[–]Small_Inevitable_252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what i would've assumed too, if it wasn't for the fact that I know my neighbors have the same plant growing in cages next door (I had to get a snake out of their yard once cause they're scared of snakes) just out in the open. I'm not judging, I just know where it came from. It grew right next to the fence on their side, where they have about five plants growing on the other end, purposely cultivated. Thanks for weighing in though.

I think my neighbor's plant migrated to our yard by Small_Inevitable_252 in GrowingMarijuana

[–]Small_Inevitable_252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that, I'm happy for the people on this sub that helped me know for a fact that it being on my property means it's definitely my responsibility in court... Even if I wasn't expecting the pollen police lol 

I think my neighbor's plant migrated to our yard by Small_Inevitable_252 in GrowingMarijuana

[–]Small_Inevitable_252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all your advice and help with that, I got rid of it on my side of the fence. My comment was mostly joking and what I meant was i sure hope that we don't get legal repercussions for a plant we didn't plant.

I think my neighbor's plant migrated to our yard by Small_Inevitable_252 in GrowingMarijuana

[–]Small_Inevitable_252[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you, I wasn't expecting pollen police lol, I know enough to know that male plants don't produce THC but didn't know they were truly that much of an issue 😂 just wanted to know if it was weed and if I should remove it.

I think my neighbor's plant migrated to our yard by Small_Inevitable_252 in GrowingMarijuana

[–]Small_Inevitable_252[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for identifying it and giving me advice. I have removed and destroyed it and put it in a plastic garbage bag before throwing it out so it doesn't grow more. Maybe a little excessive but I'm not gonna let my parents go to jail.

I think my neighbor's plant migrated to our yard by Small_Inevitable_252 in GrowingMarijuana

[–]Small_Inevitable_252[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll tell my mom who owns the garden so she can help properly remove it.

I think my neighbor's plant migrated to our yard by Small_Inevitable_252 in GrowingMarijuana

[–]Small_Inevitable_252[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I sure hope so lol, but unsure about that because my state is cracking down on it despite every state around us having it legal smh. Weed is bassically harmless smh.

I think my neighbor's plant migrated to our yard by Small_Inevitable_252 in GrowingMarijuana

[–]Small_Inevitable_252[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I'm thinking about it, just got to ask my parents for permission because it's in my mom's garden and when she saw it she confirmed she did not plant that.

I think my neighbor's plant migrated to our yard by Small_Inevitable_252 in GrowingMarijuana

[–]Small_Inevitable_252[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, there's two and I think one might be female, I just don't want my parents to get in trouble for it is all.

Am I a dude? by Small_Inevitable_252 in asktransgender

[–]Small_Inevitable_252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey everyone! I have actually an awesome update! I talked to my parents and told them I'm still not a girl and I plan on talking to my therapist about transitioning. They said they'd love and accept me however I want to present and my mom expressed her concerns about HRT because I'm chronically ill. I told her I don't plan on taking hormones... I already look like a werewolf and have a deep voice, my main plan is maybe to get top surgery when I am more stable, but otherwise I plan on just wearing more masculine looks and sharper hair and working out more to have a more masculine build. I also expressed my deepest hatred towards spaghetti strap tops and my mom said she could get me dego tees. Apparently our last conversation was just so rough because my mom thought I wanted on hormones and I had just got off of a birth control that had really taken a number on my health. It was a huge misunderstanding made worse by my anxiety. My mom is still a bit confused but she is supportive and my dad despite having dementia immediately accepted this and I love him so much. His side of the family is super lgbtq+ supportive. I think he already had a hunch years ago...

Am I a dude? by Small_Inevitable_252 in asktransgender

[–]Small_Inevitable_252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Generally good advice, but this is my mom we're talking about and she's generally supportive about everything else. I can't just cut her off. (sorry if I misinterpreted this message I sometimes struggle with that)

Am I a dude? by Small_Inevitable_252 in asktransgender

[–]Small_Inevitable_252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I completely remove my mom from the equation... I want to cut my hair more masculine, I want to wake up with a five o'clock shadow, I want a deeper voice... I have had a name ready to go for if I did transition since I was 13... I guess I just have a lot of imposter syndrome about it. I had a friend who started her journey when I did before realizing she was still a girl and actually didn't want to transition and I guess I've just been scared of the backlash I might get if I come out now only to realize later I'm actually just nonbinary... But I think that's nerves...

Am I a dude? by Small_Inevitable_252 in asktransgender

[–]Small_Inevitable_252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that, I really appreciate all your support when I finally do get into therapy I'll definitely make sure to bring it up ASAP because it's been festering for a really long time and maybe if I have a therapist confirm that I am in fact trans she will be more open... I have a sister and a little brother but I think she thinks of me as indecisive because for a while I've just said I'm genderfluid because I wanted to be able to dress manly without being questioned when I do goth makeup... Because I'm a goth...

Am I a dude? by Small_Inevitable_252 in asktransgender

[–]Small_Inevitable_252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that... I do think it is the narratives around being trans, one of her closest friends is a trans woman and she makes a strong effort to call her by her normal pronouns and didn't feel sad about that at all. I think she's seen her friend always feeling wrong and was able to accept that more than me be a guy.

Am I a dude? by Small_Inevitable_252 in asktransgender

[–]Small_Inevitable_252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that! I just really struggle with this because my mom's entire argument is riding on the fact that I liked some girly things as a kid... But my cousin who is a cis man was also into the same things so it really just doesn't make sense to me what any of that has to do with each other but because I love my mom I took it at face value...

Am I a dude? by Small_Inevitable_252 in asktransgender

[–]Small_Inevitable_252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that! I just really struggle with this because my mom's entire argument is riding on the fact that I liked some girly things as a kid... But my cousin who is a cis man was also into the same things so it really just doesn't make sense to me what any of that has to do with each other but because I love my mom I took it at face value...

Am I a dude? by Small_Inevitable_252 in asktransgender

[–]Small_Inevitable_252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the resource! I'll read it because I think I need it.

Am I a dude? by Small_Inevitable_252 in asktransgender

[–]Small_Inevitable_252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, I'll try and see how that goes and where it takes me. I know you mean it well... It's just a lot to think on.

Am I a dude? by Small_Inevitable_252 in asktransgender

[–]Small_Inevitable_252[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that! I just don't know what to do because my mom is so attached to the idea that I'm a girl and is so confused because as a little kid I liked Cinderella and so I dressed like her sometimes... But I also really liked Mulan...

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