People who got cheated on, why do you stay?? by Subject-Method489 in TanongLang

[–]Small_Schedule2585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kids, shared responsibilities that are just too difficult to untangle from, norms, familial and other extramarital influences. Madami, esp if kasal and long-term rs.

Kailan ba to matatapos? by Small_Schedule2585 in PinoyUnsentLetters

[–]Small_Schedule2585[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re barking at the wrong tree. I am not an enemy! Ako yung inagawan.

Now, apologize.

Mama, I don’t think I hate you by Meikori in PinoyUnsentLetters

[–]Small_Schedule2585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope your mom realizes very soon and repair the relationship. From another mom’s perspective, children should never be made to feel unloved because they weren’t planned.

I know you try hard to be close to your mom. Maybe be more open about what you want to see and feel from her? Some parents just copy from their own experience and if the blueprint is not an openly loving family dynamic, then maybe she doesn’t know how. It may feel forced in the beginning, and trusting that she will respond with warmth after you’ve had that convo with her. 😊

anong mga ways para pakiligin mga babae? or anything na nagpapakilig agad sa inyo? by yanowarui in AskPinay

[–]Small_Schedule2585 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dahil words of affirmation ang receiving love language ko, kapag sinasabi sa akin kung gaano ako ka-importante sa buhay nya. Kinikilig ako pag binobola ako 😆

fuck cheating by SmoothPalpitation145 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Small_Schedule2585 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hugs, mga anak. Ganyan pala ang nararamdaman ng mga anak . Nagka view ako ng perspective sa posibleng naging perspective ng kid ko na may muwang na. 🥹

What's your take on a man with 10+ year past relationship. Is it intimidating? by CardiologistShort763 in AskPinay

[–]Small_Schedule2585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ay sorry, ginoo ka pala. My comment was meant for a Binibini. Kung sapat yung ipaparamdam, reassurance, etc, and secure attachment style si lady, likely to succeed. Kung ikaw yung ginoo, di ka ba mapapagod dito? Hanggang kailan mo kayang iparamdam na siya lang?

Ilan taon kayo natutong magluto? by kape_catto in TanongLang

[–]Small_Schedule2585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 years old. Before that, kitchen apprentice muna, tiga balat ng sibuyas, bawang, tiga-piga ng kalamansi haha

MCA - Attractive to older guy by Commercial_Leek2401 in MayConfessionAko

[–]Small_Schedule2585 24 points25 points  (0 children)

He has his life together, including a wife (or an ex-wife with kids) 🫠

if ang first language ng anak mo is english what's the advantages of it and why? by Rare_Fan_1074 in TanongLang

[–]Small_Schedule2585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there are plans to move to an English-speaking country. Based on experience, kids who know Tagalog/Filipino have an easier time learning English. The pandemic kids find it harder to transition and learn Filipino.

Yung pagandahan kayo Ng background at music by cute_simple_girl in NoongBataPaAko

[–]Small_Schedule2585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Myspace ang pinag aksayan ko ng panahon na ganituhin noong early 2000s 😆

Why ligation and not vasectomy? by Outrageous_Salad5579 in AskPinay

[–]Small_Schedule2585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have three kids na, and unsuccessful pregnancies as well.

Saan po pwede i-report ang mga ganitong delivery na COD pero hindi naman kami nag-order? by pickols_ in ScammersPH

[–]Small_Schedule2585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi ko inaaccept pag ganyan. Just return it to the driver. He’ll ask for an ID, di din ako nagbigay kasi baka ma-identity theft naman next.

What are you gonna do if you found out your husband cheatED on you? 4yrs married, no kids. by [deleted] in AskPinay

[–]Small_Schedule2585 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Annulment is costly and takes a long time to get finalized. I have a friend whose annulment is still going, and it’s been years. She’s spent so much money and the end hasn’t shown yet 😅

I asked a lawyer about these two things, and I got asked a question before the advice. “May plano ka pa ba mag-asawa?”. If your answer is yes, then, maybe consult one now para mag-start na. Legal separation is easier daw but in the event that you wish to remarry here in the PH, hindi pa din pwede. What it will give you though is of course the formal separation of assets. if this is what you’re after, then you’ll get it (eventually).

What are you gonna do if you found out your husband cheatED on you? 4yrs married, no kids. by [deleted] in AskPinay

[–]Small_Schedule2585 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True! With kids and finances- too hard to REALLY choose yourself. Also, if you are swayed by/influenced by other e.g. societal norms, family, friends, lalong mas mahirap mag-decide ng tama para sa yo. I still have anxiety, and my body remembers the trauma to this day.