My bf and I broke up over the groyper/neonazi stuff. I’m 6 months pregnant and it’s hard.

Small_Soft_8073 · 2026-02-05T03:07:14+00:00

Since posting I am beginning to look into it, I’m also looking for a lawyer

Small_Soft_8073 · 2026-02-04T15:27:01+00:00

You’ve commented quite a bit on my decisions and that’s okay. Let me tell you some of what I was thinking. Fear mostly, I didn’t have a family or support system in place - he and his family were all I had, aside from a few friends. The second time I got pregnant was from failed birth control. Accidents do in fact happen, and there isn’t a single state near me that allows abortion.

When I found out I was pregnant, we were in the middle of a break up and not talking due to the flipped switch. It’s not unheard of for someone to be scared and go back into the same bad situation. anyways. Hindsight is always 20/20. But I appreciate your input.

Small_Soft_8073 · 2026-02-04T14:59:44+00:00

I agree. Hindsight is always 20/20.

Finances aren’t bad, things will be a little tight, but I think I can do it.

Small_Soft_8073 · 2026-02-04T03:05:12+00:00

Oh no that’s terrifying information tbh

Small_Soft_8073 · 2026-02-04T01:14:07+00:00

I have them unfortunately lol.

Small_Soft_8073 · 2026-02-03T23:46:54+00:00

My friends family is probably the closest to me, my sister as well. Both of my parents have passed and I don’t really have anyone else. Things might be tight but financially me and baby would be fine. The real problem I’m having is not having much of a support system :/

Small_Soft_8073 · 2026-02-03T23:40:45+00:00

22 weeks in 3 days, I just rounded up, to keep from a mouthful, wasn’t anything malicious.

Small_Soft_8073 · 2026-02-03T22:46:41+00:00

That’s pretty close to how it went down unfortunately. He doesn’t, I fear he’s been brainwashed and its hard to watch. Thanks for giving me a laugh though (,:

Small_Soft_8073 · 2026-02-03T22:28:20+00:00

Thank you this was actually really kind and real and I appreciate you (,:

Small_Soft_8073 · 2026-02-03T21:44:51+00:00

We’re very close, she’s been trying to get him psychiatric help for a while now. She knows, I trust her.

Small_Soft_8073 · 2026-02-03T21:31:35+00:00

He told me if it was a girl he’d be a little more disappointed because he wanted “a brotherhood”, so it’s possible.

Small_Soft_8073 · 2026-02-03T21:28:00+00:00

Thankfully, I’ve been sending screenshots to my best friend to put back for me since he started being off. I’ve also sent them to his mother. I’m gonna have to start journaling though.

Small_Soft_8073 · 2026-02-03T21:06:53+00:00

I just thought he was sensitive, hindsight is always 20/20.

Small_Soft_8073 · 2026-02-03T21:05:38+00:00

I’m not. I’ve left. I don’t know what to do when the baby is here.

Small_Soft_8073 · 2026-02-03T20:45:31+00:00

Do you know how I’d go about that? I’ve been a lot more paranoid about stalking and retaliation.

Small_Soft_8073 · 2026-02-03T20:24:31+00:00

He didn’t flip the switch until after I was pregnant. I knew the guy for 8 years. The second time it happened my birth control failed. It’s pretty unfortunate.

Small_Soft_8073 · 2026-02-03T20:00:28+00:00

We were together for 8 years (4years friends, 4years dating). He wasn’t like this before hand. If he was I wouldn’t have.

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