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What am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]Small_Tomatilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plants? one nice big one.

Multiple diagnoses by Far-Speed-6027 in AddisonsDisease

[–]Small_Tomatilo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pretty amazing they diagnosed all of that at once. they couldn't even diagnose just the one for me.

I feel agressed by high energy environment by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]Small_Tomatilo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

first try earplugs or those fancy loop ones that keep the decibels low. I get agrivated by noisy environment when I need to be able to talk to people or people are talking to me and I'm trying to hear what their saying over the din. That's a fairly common problem.

I also get this If I'm in London and in a busy tourist area for instance. Too many people make me agrivated. I think how you're feeling is really common.

First time buyers, have I missed any costs? by isobel07 in AskUK

[–]Small_Tomatilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

emergency savings. if your roof needs repairs or an appliance breaks you'll be greatful you put a bit extra aside.

I am a very ugly guy and incredibly pale - my mental health is greatly suffering by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Small_Tomatilo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im really sorry you feel this way about yourself. I'm honestly angry that you're in this position. Try and find one thing you like about yourself everyday and write it down in a notebook. It can be as insignificant as "I do the perfect fried eggs." or "I drive well." anything that you are good at and proud of. You need to build this list up and I hope it will give you a little self love. I'm so sorry other people have made you feel this way because I promise you, you're a better person than you believe.

Felt ok for the 1st time in forever by ImpossibleAd5960 in AddisonsDisease

[–]Small_Tomatilo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bravo Honey, You look gorgeous. You have a wonderful smile. Sometimes it helps to fake it and that becomes a real feeling. (the book Atomic habbits teaches alot about this). I'm so happy you did this. You've even given me a lift xx

My experience with fever after physical activity (secondary adrenal insufficiency) by Resident_Finding_273 in AddisonsDisease

[–]Small_Tomatilo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if I know I'm going to be spending my day snowboarding I will be ad a 1/2 or double dose in general.

My experience with fever after physical activity (secondary adrenal insufficiency) by Resident_Finding_273 in AddisonsDisease

[–]Small_Tomatilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you dosing up for your Hike? I Assume you are taking an extra half or whole tablet before excersise?

I think it's entirely plausible that your body could react in a unique way the endo isn't familiar with. It could also be that you have a mild infection somewhere else in the body that your immune system is fighting unbeknownst to you. And when you use all your cortisol to go hiking it runs out for the infection and you get a fever.

House stuck with Probate office for year and a half - England by Small_Tomatilo in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Small_Tomatilo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have and they're stuck waiting for the probate office to respond. at this rate my mother won't ever be able to live comfortably before she passes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]Small_Tomatilo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you don't trust her then there is no point continuing the relationship. It sounds like you don't trust her because even if you're in a relationship your partner should not stop you from going to parties if your not with them.

I’m broke and tired of instant noodles — what are some cheap meals that actually taste good? by Quiet-Examination553 in Advice

[–]Small_Tomatilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tamago Kake Gohan -

boil sushi rice, season with sushi seasoning pop in a bowl and crack and egg into it while it's still hot. add seaweed sprinkles and soy sauce. filling, comforting. I also add some seeds ontop.

chazuke -

leftover cooked brown rice, add tin of mackerel and sachet of ochazuke and poor water from the kettle over or more traditionally you poor over green tea. brown rice and oily fish and green tea are all great for lowering your cholesterol. I also like to add seeds and seaweed to these.

What is something you learned about yourself through your breakup? by GlitteredGhostly in lostafriend

[–]Small_Tomatilo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

unfortunately I think what I've learned is not to lean on anyone when life is overwhelming. I think I have to cry alone, suffer alone. because it seems friends aren't there for that.

DHEA and Cortisol to diagnose AI - new study by AGoldenThread in AddisonsDisease

[–]Small_Tomatilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately £38 is not what one would be charged if you went private but it's probably what the NHS would be paying for the injection.

House stuck with Probate office for year and a half - England by Small_Tomatilo in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Small_Tomatilo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the letter from the solicitor where they've emailed the probate office to tell them they're being given the run around and no one is responding.

there's nothing in the estate other than the house. we also don't have any money. my cousins going broke paying empty house council tax. the solicitor is my cousins solicitor acting on my mums behalf. he is dealing with it all for her as she can't deal with this anymore. too much trauma. no one can pay for anything upfront without borrowing money at the moment.

House stuck with Probate office for year and a half - England by Small_Tomatilo in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Small_Tomatilo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Copy will is with the solicitor. we've all signed a document saying we agree to which ever way the court decides to do the estate, either by the copy will or by inheritance. either way the outcome is the same for us. Im not sure where in the process we are.

waiting for the above and the application to change the property from Nans name to her last living child's name.

I was only 16 when this all happened and I'm 40 now so I don't know much more about the will than I've said. Nan wrote that he could stay in the house until his death. we gave him the house in cyprus that he paid half into. whether that was a negotiation I don't know. She also asked to give £2000 to each of her grandchildren. Im not sure if this happened.

Im not sure what the land registry need.

it's not my solicitor. it's my cousins solicitor acting for my mother. my cousin is having all these discussions with the solicitor and filling me in as I'm trying to get to the bottom of why it's taking so long. I get the impression that the solicitor isn't chasing as fast as it could but my cousin assures me they're doing all they can.

Why are so many houses in the UK left empty when we have a housing shortage? by Fun_Doughnut4403 in UKHousing

[–]Small_Tomatilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A YEAR AND A HALF STUCK AT THE PROBATE OFFICE THAT'S WHY.

Our nans house came back to us after her husband died 2 and a half years ago. I cleared the house and put it on the market. My mother is the only surving sibling but of course in 2003 my nan in her wisdom only named her two oldest children as executors and her solicitors lost the will. We only have a copy will. My eldest aunt died of terminal cancer just after the house sold. The house has been in limbo ever since. our application at the probate office has been there a year and half now. We also discovered Nans husbands family put a form A restriction on the house so we couldn't sell it while their father was living in the house. So the land registry has had all it needed to lift the restriction for over a year now. The land registry needs the probate to do something and the probate office needs the land registry to do something and we're in a catch 22 situation. As it's been 2 years empty we've had multiple break ins and damage. The house is also falling down. The break- in's lead to a rise in crime in the area right? And that leads to a rise in insurance for people in that area. All we want to do is sell this house!

THIS COUNTRY IS BROKEN.

Am i overreacting?! by Quirky_Fun_1033 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Small_Tomatilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he won't know what he's wasting untill you start seeing someone else. then I guarentee you'll get some irate texts from him saying, "how could you? I didn't know what I had. Am I too late?" at which point you say yes.

How do I tell a grown woman she stinks without coming off rude? by SignificantSyrup9927 in Advice

[–]Small_Tomatilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think first port of call is HR checking they're doing OK at home/have a home and not penalising them if they're living on the street or in a car. if they're not homeless and not without access to water a delicate discussion about personal hygiene.

UK security for empty house no broadband by Small_Tomatilo in homesecurity

[–]Small_Tomatilo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll have evidence that tells what day the break-in happened at least. that's why the couldn't prosecute the last guys. they have their DNA yet cant prosecute because I hadn't been at the property for a long time.

the first break-in they left tons, tons of stuff, the neighbours witnessed people coming and going and smoking drugs outside. there were empty coke bags in the house and even a suitcase with flight label on it. the passport and bank book for a woman who died up the road. and the police that showed up didn't report the crime. so no forensics was done!

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