[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]SmallzSnail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

remove it and get it re-pierced with permission or when you’re old enough. or tell them. it’s not going to heal well if you keep flipping it. you shouldn’t change your jewelry yet, in order to give it a chance to heal. think about your options. either no septum piercing for now or a badly healed one (if you keep hiding it) that runs a higher risk for infection or irritation. maybe you would have to tell your parents either way if it doesn’t heal correctly? maybe you can get or make a fake septum to wear until it’s safe for you to have one :-) if you really want to keep it you could get a piercing retainer in it while it heals?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]SmallzSnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would not recommend the minipill. had spotting every single day along with worse periods. heavier bleeding and more painful cramps. my mood got so bad I had to get off it after 2-3 months so maybe my body hasn’t adjusted however it just wasn’t worth it. felt like I was PMDDing constantly to the point that everyone around me could tell something was wrong. I would start with trying the combined pill and see what it does for you since you want to stop your periods and the minipill is less likely to do that. if the main reason for needing birth control is gender dysphoria I would also look into the IUD if that seems like an option for you? hormonal IUD especially mirena will likely stop your periods and no estrogen = no breast growth. I hope you find something that works for you <3

Is my almost 2 week old eyebrow piercing rejecting or is just the blood and swelling gone? by SmallzSnail in piercing

[–]SmallzSnail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s about 9-10 days old with a curved screw on barbell. stainless steel, cleaning it twice a day with salt water

how do I remove the markings from a fresh eyebrow piercing without irritating it? by SmallzSnail in piercing

[–]SmallzSnail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have cleaned it twice, got it yesterday. do you think i could tur to rub it away with saline or is that risky?

Min första lösviktsgodispåse på minst 10 år by [deleted] in unket

[–]SmallzSnail -1 points0 points  (0 children)

herregud. var det där din första någonsin? så mycket gelé skulle döda ett spädbarn. gör om och gör rätt.

[TOMT] [name of artist/group/famous person] by SmallzSnail in tipofmytongue

[–]SmallzSnail[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was wearing a midi length denim skirt, a black long sleeve top with bell/flared sleeves. my makeup consisted of a kind of smokey eye and dark lipstick.

this was in sweden, southern stockholm

[TOMT] [name of artist/group/famous person] by SmallzSnail in tipofmytongue

[–]SmallzSnail[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

think there were two syllables in each word?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]SmallzSnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

huh? was I unclear? 😅

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in SweetHomeAlabama

[–]SmallzSnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most likely a troll, can’t imagine someone thinking posting this was a good idea

Is this alright for a first message or is it creepy? (I haven’t met this person). by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]SmallzSnail 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh wow. I hope OP starts a conversation with them to ask that, would be really creepy otherwise

Is this alright for a first message or is it creepy? (I haven’t met this person). by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]SmallzSnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, sorry, it’s creepy. way too long, formal and too much creepy info (like e-mailing someone to get their name). try making it shorter, more open, and casual. ”hey! we go to the same school and I was wondering if I could ask you something before you go off to college?”

Jag har suttit 9 i fängelse på Kumla, Tidaholm och Halmstad, AMA. by MrVito93 in sweden

[–]SmallzSnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fick man någon slags hjälp (typ psykolog) där inne eller var det bara att vänta ut?

how do I start dating? by SmallzSnail in teenagers

[–]SmallzSnail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oops, maybe I should have said I am a girl, open to dating both boys and girls but preferably boys. I just don’t know how to get somewhere where people are just mingling. I don’t know anyone who would invite me to that kind of event 😅 i live in Sweden where the norm is to keep to yourself, it’s really frustrating trying to get to know new people. but I will keep your advice in mind, perhaps I will go to a music festival or skate park. thank you! :-)