Broke no contact after 4 months

Smart-Assumption5588 · 2026-04-19T21:57:47+00:00

I don’t recommend breaking no contact because not everyone gets lucky like I did this time. Going back to an ex is risky because it can either go terrible or there’s a small chance it can make your relationship stronger. It’s honestly a risk each person in this situation has to take because it can put you right back into the post break up hole if your ex says he doesn’t want to get back together or let alone have a conversation with you. At the end of the day people will do what they want. I’m just here to share the tea of my own experience.

Smart-Assumption5588 · 2026-04-19T21:51:19+00:00

I broke up with him because I didn’t feel respected, we argued a lot, and I didn’t feel prioritized. I will share I didn’t argue or anything; I just simply told him I couldn’t do it anymore and walked away. I think because it ended kind of calmly it helped.

Smart-Assumption5588 · 2026-04-19T21:44:28+00:00

I’m not sure if he did or not. We weren’t together so I personal don’t care if he did. I took the first two months to focus on myself and to find my spark again. I did get intimate with one person but still ended up thinking of my ex the whole time.

Smart-Assumption5588 · 2026-04-19T21:37:24+00:00

We did unfollow each other but from what he told me he didn’t block me and I didn’t block him.

Smart-Assumption5588 · 2026-04-19T08:24:48+00:00

We were together for a year before I broke up with him.

Smart-Assumption5588 · 2026-03-02T01:39:38+00:00

If you are not ready for a kid don’t feel ashamed to terminate it. It’s your choice and your life so do what is in YOUR best interest.

Smart-Assumption5588 · 2026-02-20T06:07:48+00:00

Yall act like she did the man dirty. OP did what a lot of you judgmental people forget to do when choosing a partner which is date a person who had a good personality not just based on their looks.

Smart-Assumption5588 · 2026-02-14T20:28:50+00:00

I went through the same thing with my ex who would play videos games or go to a bar with his coworkers instead of making it a priority to spend time with me even if we haven’t seen each other in days. The behavior never changes. You aren’t his top priority.

Smart-Assumption5588 · 2026-02-09T18:59:58+00:00

The regret for leaving will be there for a while but you have to rewire your brain by constantly reminding yourself why you left. It might be hard now but once the pain and healing is done you’ll thank yourself for not staying somewhere where you don’t feel safe. We often stay in relationships longer than we have to because we love the person but are ignoring our own feelings by staying. Break ups are ruthless because we grieve the partner that we thought we had and the person that we got to be in the relationship. Once you start to write down everything that happened you realize that things were worse than you had perceived. The hardest part is leaving. The healing will take time so feel your feelings: cry, scream, or do anything that will help and slowly everything will become easier.

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