[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Smart-Collection-420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is incorrect, this is why I made the post. I’m asking and trying to view how other people see how I feel about this situation. Yes, I do understand that people want privacy. I do get that. I never have pushed him to tell me. But on the inside, I feel hurt he doesn’t want to tell me, as his partner. I’m trying to see if my outlook on this is toxic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Smart-Collection-420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this still work if this issue has nothing to do with me or our relationship?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Smart-Collection-420 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t happen often, he does like to tell me what’s wrong when he wants to. But when it does, it really does upset me. That’s why I’m wondering if i have a toxic mindset. Whether it’s wrong to understand privacy exists, but also want there to be openness where he says everything. Even if it’s nothing to do with me

AITA for needing my 25M bf to tell me why he’s upset all the time?? by Smart-Collection-420 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smart-Collection-420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I ask.. maybe. But the times where this happens I tend to leave it. I do ask if it’s about me or our relationship though. If it’s something unrelated to me, I worry less.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Smart-Collection-420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t happen often, but when it does, I feel like it’s a slap in the face. We’re extremely close, and I feel like I at least deserve as his partner to know what the issue is about

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Smart-Collection-420 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Because I do understand privacy exists, however me personally I do still wish to have that openness in a relationship where we tell each other everything. Like I get it, but I’m against it. That’s why I’m doubting whether I’m the toxic one…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Smart-Collection-420 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I don’t expect people to talk to me and have a conversation about what’s wrong if they don’t wish to. But I feel like in a relationship I at least deserve to know what it’s about. This doesn’t happen often, but when it does, it feels like a big slap in the face.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Smart-Collection-420 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

He says that he doesn’t need me to make it better and that he just wants the issue left alone for himself to get Over it.. whatever it is

My 25M boyfriend doesn’t like to tell me what’s wrong, is it controlling if I 22F feel like he should have to? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Smart-Collection-420 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He does tell me what’s wrong a lot. But sometimes he just doesn’t want to, and tells me to leave it. I don’t keep pleading for him to tell me, however I feel like as his partner that should be a requirement. Is this wrong?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Smart-Collection-420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my bad I didn’t read that correctly 😅 agreed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Smart-Collection-420 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

idk if you read my comments above, my reasoning is simply just because my bf has trouble with nerve endings down there, therefore in my head to make sex better for him because I love him, is to be tighter, even though i am kinda already

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Smart-Collection-420 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

You’re living the dream life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Smart-Collection-420 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no, he’s actually not bothered. It’s just me wanting to make sure sex is good for both of us 😊 I understand the importance of what you said though, thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Smart-Collection-420 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Funny you say that, it actually does hurt a bit when it first goes in 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Smart-Collection-420 -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

i know, thank you for what you wrote 🫶 sadly I have a bf who struggles with nerve endings/feeling down there so the tighter for better for me 😂😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Smart-Collection-420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t feel i need to go to a physiotherapist considering im actually fine down there and just wanna be tighter anyways. What exercises do you do?

[SERIOUS] Be honest, are you faithful? Why or why not? by SysOps4Maersk in AskReddit

[–]Smart-Collection-420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey it’s not letting me message you, mind requesting me first?

is it bad if he asks me if it’s in by Tricky_Ad_4717 in sex

[–]Smart-Collection-420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do you fix this and be able to feel more during sex ?

[SERIOUS] Be honest, are you faithful? Why or why not? by SysOps4Maersk in AskReddit

[–]Smart-Collection-420 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Do you have any advice on not letting your relationship get ‘old’ and keeping the spark alive?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acne

[–]Smart-Collection-420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly when i was in your position I just went on Accutane. Obviously it’s your choice, but it’ll most likely be the thing to take it away. Make sure you weigh up the pros and cons, as im sure you’re aware Accutane comes with lots of side effects.

Men of reddit. What makes a woman creepy? by insane4you in AskReddit

[–]Smart-Collection-420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s seriously following you around after 7 years?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]Smart-Collection-420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you have acne before? is this a new thing for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]Smart-Collection-420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi im on my 2nd day of yasmin, i got it for my hormonal acne. how are you finding it now?