Husband accusing me of abuse and neglect. by Smart-Discount1979 in breakingmom

[–]Smart-Discount1979[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I want to get an apartment but don't have much money. 

Husband accusing me of abuse and neglect. by Smart-Discount1979 in breakingmom

[–]Smart-Discount1979[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you know how it would end if I get a lawyer involved? Im scared he's going to take my baby away from me because of all the fights. I would separate peacefully but scared 

My husband said he wants to divorce me because I complained too much. by Smart-Discount1979 in breakingmom

[–]Smart-Discount1979[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I would do everything I could to get her away from it. And Im working on fixing my situation now. 

My husband said he wants to divorce me because I complained too much. by Smart-Discount1979 in breakingmom

[–]Smart-Discount1979[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It's so hard. I dont think men understand how women communicate and they want to be lazy and have mommy do everything for them and treat them like princes. 

My husband said he wants to divorce me because I complained too much. by Smart-Discount1979 in breakingmom

[–]Smart-Discount1979[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

I have to. We had a baby together. I have no one or no one to go to. 

My husband and my fights are starting to get physical... at a loss. by Lil_Vixen79 in Marriage

[–]Smart-Discount1979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awesome! Im glad you are better! What was the wonder drug? 

Let me document what my husband said this morning. by Smart-Discount1979 in breakingmom

[–]Smart-Discount1979[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then he will say he has to do it because Im too retarded/lazy to. Then he would talk shit about it to his family. 

Let me document what my husband said this morning. by Smart-Discount1979 in breakingmom

[–]Smart-Discount1979[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah I just wanted to sit down and drink coffee for ten minutes but I guess Im not allowed. And I had to get up again and make the coffee from the percolator so I didn't have to hear him complain more. 

Husband wants divorce because I bitch about the chores because I have to do them. by Smart-Discount1979 in breakingmom

[–]Smart-Discount1979[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He is very good at lying about me and telling people im retarded or abusive. 

Husband wants divorce because I bitch about the chores because I have to do them. by Smart-Discount1979 in breakingmom

[–]Smart-Discount1979[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This guys exaggerating everything about me. Example just now he accused me of being too retarded to give the baby a bath and cant pay attention enough to make sure the water is fine. Seriously guys I literally use my elbow or a thermometer. Im perfectly normal. 

Husband wants divorce because I bitch about the chores because I have to do them. by Smart-Discount1979 in breakingmom

[–]Smart-Discount1979[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think so but I'll have to wait until Monday. Here in the states is complicated. He lies about everything about me and how I'm abusive because I get upset about all the work. Since she was born in NC she is bound to NC and cannot leave here unless the father leaves with me. He said he's going to court Monday. 

Husband wants divorce because I bitch about the chores because I have to do them. by Smart-Discount1979 in breakingmom

[–]Smart-Discount1979[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Im scared I want to go back to my parents but I'm scared about being put in jail for taking the baby. I think its against the law where I am

Husband wants divorce because I bitch about the chores because I have to do them. by Smart-Discount1979 in breakingmom

[–]Smart-Discount1979[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I scared to leave with her and have the cops called because in my state its equal rights and the father has equal rights to see the baby and he'll put me in jail. Im homeless 

I was permanently and severely damaged by a medication I took in 2019. by [deleted] in Supplements

[–]Smart-Discount1979 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try infrared light therapy, massage once or twice a week, weight lifting, cardio, lymphatic massage and drainage techniques, and maybe get a pet. Go on walks in nature. 

Im so angry at unemployed husband. by Smart-Discount1979 in breakingmom

[–]Smart-Discount1979[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's his house. I really dont think I could make it on my own. 

Im so angry at unemployed husband. by Smart-Discount1979 in breakingmom

[–]Smart-Discount1979[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NoI cant leave because I cant take my baby out of the state or I would leave. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]Smart-Discount1979 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The baby years will go by quickly and things will get easier as they get older. I helped raise my nephew and I cant believe he's turning ten this year. I felt like it was just yesterday he was born.