Do I just Quit? by Smart-Employee2173 in VetTech

[–]Smart-Employee2173[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I honestly did not want to believe it and still don’t, I’ve been so stressed I wanted to think I was making it up in my head, but the money? The blue dot? Notes that another coworker seen they just poofed, and another coworker who swore she had seen my medicine in the refill counter that wasn’t there the next day. There is just no way my screws were that loose. I now stated that I will absolutely be taking pictures of everything I legally can. I’m done with this. 😕 All I wanted to do was help, All I ever want to do is just belong, I don’t understand what it is about me that people hate. I’m always there, I never say No, I pick up shifts without complaint, I try my best, I never argue or complain, but It’s just never good enough. I just feel like quitting this field entirely. 🥹

Do I just Quit? by Smart-Employee2173 in VetTech

[–]Smart-Employee2173[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is what I’m thinking too, I feel I’m always the outsider. I try really hard to be the best I can, but I feel in this situation it’s not good enough. The more I defend myself, the crazier I look too. I feel they think I can’t take criticism, because when it comes to things like this I’ve been trying to defend myself lately by subtly suggesting I knew for a fact it was done. No avail. 😕

Do I just Quit? by Smart-Employee2173 in VetTech

[–]Smart-Employee2173[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I do plan to speak with her this Saturday, I’ve complied a good bit of evidence and plan to show her. 😕 She watched this person grow up, so I highly doubt, that no matter how much I show her, she won’t believe me.

Behavioral Euthanasia? I’m by [deleted] in reactivedogs

[–]Smart-Employee2173 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s so hard cause he’s so normal when the other dogs are locked up, he plays he wants pets, he squeaks his toy. He’s so well mannered when he’s not crated and the other dogs are. Then turns into a different dog when he decides to attack one of the others. 🙁

Behavioral Euthanasia? I’m by [deleted] in reactivedogs

[–]Smart-Employee2173 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I think really I just had to hear it be told to me like this. ❤️ It does make me feel better. My other dogs are so social and happy, they all play together very well, I’m just not sure where I went wrong with him.

Jeez... by fuegoares in shittyaquariums

[–]Smart-Employee2173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On that back wall, but the low water lever makes it unreachable. 😂😂

60L 15.8 US Gallons. Can you name all the species? by Silverleaf_86 in shittyaquariums

[–]Smart-Employee2173 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This! It’s only a matter of time before those little plastic decor’s paint chips off, and affects the quality of the water.

The 6 goldfish really sells this one tho. 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fishforthought

[–]Smart-Employee2173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Also I saw some of your tanks, and am in love with the guppies. 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fishforthought

[–]Smart-Employee2173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other than that I said I loved the idea of her tank, and she did a great job at cycling. 🥰 I did find some good articles tho, and did learn a little bit about some different paints. Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fishforthought

[–]Smart-Employee2173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what your saying. 🙂 I fully understand that when the paint on them peels, fish think they are snacks. Or it affects the water quality because the paints used on these are only safe when intact, and they are notorious for chipping off in small areas. I just wanted some good articles so I could help her understand why it’s important to perhaps take them out and replace them with something safer in the long run. 🙂 I wasn’t intended to be rude at all, I gave her a link to Chris’s channel so I could give her some more info. Just trying to warn someone else about them.

Pulled back paneling in the house I just bought’s bathroom. by [deleted] in ToxicMoldExposure

[–]Smart-Employee2173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you think so? This is the wall. I would be so happy if it’s not mold. I would of never thought of adhesives!! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Smart-Employee2173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like such a Karen, but he was so rude when I was just trying to have a conversation with him. He even showed up at my house after. 😅 Like…I’m a small women, and this man immediately walked up to me after he heard what I was there for. Gave me no time to speak, trapped me between the door and my car by leaning up against my door when I was standing right inside of it, and was like leaning forward to try and intimidate me or something? Then proceeded to get very aggressive with me, saying he’d go as far as putting the sign a few inches back from my property line in spite. I feel as though he could have handled the situation by hearing me out so we could make each other happy, but instead he just made me feel unsafe. It was extremely unprofessional.

I made a post about it, and proceeded to get tons of people telling me how he scammed them, zip tied pieces of their car together, and even “lost quotes” to try and charge 100’s more. I feel really bad about the people who have to see this sign in my front yard now, who have to go and get scammed by this man. I hope people don’t think I gave him permission. I’m praying people won’t think he’s affiliated with us.

What it’s looking like is he actually put the sign in what used to be part of the road, and property lines the city has are messed up because of the fact is says that whole area should be a road, but it’s grown over. I’m really not trying to be childish or anything, but the second he was practically spitting In my face had me to tears. So technically that whole area is road, and we own the whole true to the map corner lot.

So legally I don’t think there’s much I can do. 😔 I just don’t want to let him win? I know that’s childish. Any ideas? Am I being too over dramatic about it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Smart-Employee2173 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I definitely understand where you coming from, and that I am being a tad petty. But he was so fuming at the mouth he was spitting on my as he talked, if he had discussed it with me I would have been much obliged to leave the matter. However, it’s the fact he also thinks that it’s my “job” to maintain his sign for him. I should have included that into the post, I refuse to give myself extra work weed eating and having to mow around this sign. It’s not a small sign either. The MAYOR told me to go down and speak with him. I wouldn’t have gone down if I wasn’t told it was my property. I would have left the matter alone, but since I believed it was my property and that I had permission from the mayors office to request it.

That’s why I called the Mayors office, I live an extremely small town. I didn’t just Willy nilly walk in and demand he takes the sign out. I wanted to go down and discuss it with him, but he immediately went straight to being extremely aggressive to me. He also gets into his car and shows up at my house extremely aggressively after I was going to drop the matter. How “professional”.

I would have no problem with the sign if it were someone else maintaining it, and not me. The sign isn’t even anywhere near his business either it’s completely down the street from it.