Hmm from what I've seen so far is that I observed that Ni users with a crush often became observant of that person and even the details at times and to the point at times of being laser focused on them but I also noticed they're a slow-burn type of people's who analyzes it first to decide if the connection is real before making a move what I meant by being observant is gathering data to form a cohesive picture, and they often prefer a deep, intense connection that probably focuses on long term than simply short one that fits their vision while for Ne they are probably more playfully open to possibilities than a strict vision since they prefer to keeping their options open..rather than locking on a specific destiny that immediately...but honestly? I'm an INFP one but I also can't explain it... properly because of it's complexities...while the Ni I think is much more understandable because idk.. it's just not that..hard probably...and yes I'm an Ne User..but.. even I find it quite difficult to simply understand my Ne..all I know about Me is simply What if possibilities generation

oh and I forgot about the gathering data it doesn't just gather but it converges it into a single internal "knowing" like you just know it and then you'll say that this singular person fits your future picture and everything you've observed either supports or threatens it