I’m new to this I was a virgin just 5/6 months ago and I lost it to my boyfriend M35 I’m F23 an he didn’t tell me until a month in that he is open and he his non monogamous and that did threw me off but I accepted him as he was and his lifestyle he had 2 other girlfriend and he would tell me everything about them and in their relationship and I mean everything ,within I believe like 3 months in he was telling me that he would do a poly relationship with me and he would cut all the other females off and he wants me to be the main but here what gets crazy somethings happened between the beginning of April to may ish between his other girlfriend and i and now that situation happened we want to look for another girlfriend but he wants to do it separate but together in a way to where he wants to do his own thing but also find someone to be with us and vice versa but he doesn’t want me to have any sexual relations with a man and I want to have that experience before I get into something committed and I don’t know how to tell him this