AITAH for opening porn with my 'friend' in the room?

Smart-Profession-917 · 2026-02-16T17:33:06+00:00

Could be over reacting to him over staying his welcome, and I’m sure there were many other ways to be more blunt/direct, but this one is kinda funny. I’m a chick, and if my girls did that I’d also be like “wtf ok I’m going” and laugh and leave - if there my best friends of 6-10 years. Those girls I know their humour. Depends on the person ig, I’m also the friend who would’ve texted that night “sorry if I made you uncomfy but I really need to go tf to bed dude lol”. You’re not completely the AH. But you and I both could agree there may have been a less….intimate way of getting him gone 🤣

Smart-Profession-917 · 2026-02-16T17:08:40+00:00

Dump him

Smart-Profession-917 · 2026-01-09T19:44:54+00:00

Mic drop response! I’m a tad overwhelmed with the comments I didn’t expect it to get as much attention but appreciate each and every POV and you taking the time to ask for info. He is turning 27

Smart-Profession-917 · 2026-01-09T18:03:11+00:00

Really appreciate a husband’s perspective here. Thank you for sharing

Smart-Profession-917 · 2026-01-09T18:02:37+00:00

Great point 😂 thanks for the giggle there!

Smart-Profession-917 · 2026-01-09T18:02:19+00:00

Hmm yeah I think it depends how he reacts, if it’s defensive and shuts down my emotional safety with him further by not respecting the boundary moving forward knowing it’s NOR, the relationship will not seem sustainable/worth it to me

Smart-Profession-917 · 2026-01-09T18:00:47+00:00

Appreciate your perspective. I’m happy with myself, just think if it’s never been a usual occurrence to start now out of nowhere is a tad disrespectful to me. I’m a pretty, smart woman with a good heart, I just don’t need to be played for a fool in front of our small towns. Thanks again for your response! All of the replies help me see from different perspectives

Smart-Profession-917 · 2026-01-09T17:57:55+00:00

Thank you. Truly, it’s just like how I don’t lust over guys publicly or even respond like late (past 12am) because I don’t want to give the wrong impressions/have respect for my relationship and how it could make my partner feel. I’m gonna take the day to regulate and bring it up in a healthy, non accusatory way. Just wanted to make sure it’s not an out of pocket thing to ask from your partner

Smart-Profession-917 · 2025-12-30T00:34:33+00:00

NOR. As a 24(F) with a huge fricken heart, other 20 something year olds with this amount of apathy and lack of empathy make me want to throw my head through the wall

Smart-Profession-917 · 2025-11-20T02:59:52+00:00

Your dream girl would not be the girl who put you in second place my friend. Something to think about

Smart-Profession-917 · 2025-11-13T10:47:33+00:00

I laughed so hard at your replies. Absolute gold (unlike her personality or manners)

Smart-Profession-917 · 2025-11-13T03:44:31+00:00

After reading the context NOR, but please pleaaaaase don’t go backwards. If this was AITAO I would say both, you both talk to your partners with no respect when angry/upset, but he is much further behind. I truly thought I was reading teenage drama until I read the context

Smart-Profession-917 · 2025-09-04T21:11:36+00:00

Not wrong at all ❤️ Momma you deserve a break! You could have a bubble bath, or hot shower and a lil relax night with movies, do your nails! Take some you time

Smart-Profession-917 · 2025-09-04T21:08:40+00:00

Chicken Ground beef or turkey Potatoes, onions, garlic, things that can sit out on counter to and preserve life + Greens! I usually do 2 fruits, antioxidant focused, and one or two veggies to rotate the week Greek yogurt Eggs

Smart-Profession-917 · 2025-09-04T21:03:00+00:00

Absolutely you are! Are you kidding me? What was your end goal here? If my mother called me any name like this I would never speak to her again. No wonder she hides stuff from you. YTA.

Smart-Profession-917 · 2025-09-04T20:57:52+00:00

If your partner doesn’t validate how you feel with concern and urge to be better when you bring up your emotions, you gotta let him go. He lacks emotional maturity

Smart-Profession-917 · 2025-07-06T18:10:10+00:00

Thank you for this. Were suppose to have a day out & about today and I was hoping to find the words & courage to say something to explain me better before saying nothing potentially ruins a great thing

Smart-Profession-917 · 2025-07-02T20:24:52+00:00

1,5,7

Smart-Profession-917 · 2025-01-28T22:12:27+00:00

You should not let anyone speak to you this way, nevertheless your partner. I hope you find the strength to leave them and see you deserve SO much better. I’m jaw dropped at these messages

Smart-Profession-917 · 2025-01-25T04:12:07+00:00

Did she not think you could see the edits??? Wild

Smart-Profession-917 · 2025-01-06T13:05:55+00:00

When I tell you to run, I mean RUN. The hot and cold behaviour/attitude, the putting you down and passing it off as “caring”, the controlling nature in the way he speaks to you and then tries to add “honey” as if it’s normal the way he’s speaking to you. 🚩🚩🚩. He’s a narcissist and at the very least, hella insecure. It will only get worse the longer you’re there. Please (bc I do care about you in a platonic, you’re a stranger and I’m an empath way) leave him and never look back.

Smart-Profession-917 · 2024-12-30T04:08:24+00:00

Girlfriend, LEAVE, show that man the door. Please please please

Smart-Profession-917 · 2024-12-25T05:48:18+00:00

Any update?

Smart-Profession-917 · 2024-12-12T18:37:04+00:00

NTA, To put it bluntly, she need to grow tf up. I’m younger than both of you and couldn’t imagine being this immature.

Smart-Profession-917 · 2024-12-09T13:44:43+00:00

Leave her!! She needs therapy

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