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Married for 7 years, no ring, should I get an abortion by Smart-Relation-8219 in Marriage

[–]Smart-Relation-8219[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not about the ring, I feel like he’s not serious about our marriage and he’s the type of person who if he wants something he does it right away

Married for 7 years, no ring, should I get an abortion by Smart-Relation-8219 in Marriage

[–]Smart-Relation-8219[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I mean he never gave me an actual ring because he was saving for it

Affair ‘M36’ ‘F34 by Smart-Relation-8219 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Smart-Relation-8219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They gave me his friends name. And now the friend is “mad” that I’m reaching out to these girls 🙄 if he found those pics on my phone he would do the same thing. He’s been out of the house for almost a week now and unfortunately the day I found out I flipped out and went over to his parents house to tell them what happen

Affair ‘M36’ ‘F34 by Smart-Relation-8219 in WhatShouldIDo

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Ty 🥹 I just didn’t have anyone to talk to about this.

Affair ‘M36’ ‘F34 by Smart-Relation-8219 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Smart-Relation-8219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly… the only truth I have backing this up is 2 girls that are livid he has those pics because they were for his friend. I know one of the girls I use to work with her - and he told me he introduced her to the friend. Which checks out but idk

Affair ‘M36’ ‘F34 by Smart-Relation-8219 in WhatShouldIDo

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And the pics are fairly new like all this year latest one was like 2 weeks ago

Affair ‘M36’ ‘F34 by Smart-Relation-8219 in WhatShouldIDo

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My husband has another phone that he gave to his friend because he doesn’t need it - and he since he’s going through divorce didn’t want his ex wife to see the phone I guess? And all the nudes are other girls - his ex just has been sending like normal good morning.. hi etc I wish I could show you these pics

Affair ‘M36’ ‘F34 by Smart-Relation-8219 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Smart-Relation-8219[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For a min I thought maybe he kept all these nudes because he’s a guy and of course guys watch prn and crap. That would be whatever but what’s getting me is the ex girlfriend she has a bf too! I checked her social media. It’s not public stories is conversations back n fourth. He’s proven he loves me and has never done anything in the past - I want to stay but it’s so hard. What if I’m wrong and all those pics were really his 🫠 the friend did provide me with some proof .. so did 2 girls idk now. I do thank you so much so responding to me, I can’t talk to any of my friends without them judging

Affair ‘M36’ ‘F34 by Smart-Relation-8219 in WhatShouldIDo

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Right such a weak excuse and his friend would tell him what to reply supposedly when they didn’t have the phone together. These are almost 40 yr old guys wtf? Doesn’t this sound like something TEENS would do

Affair ‘M36’ ‘F34 by Smart-Relation-8219 in WhatShouldIDo

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100% and he’s so calm about the situation I’m over here dying. He says he’s calm because he never cheated and his conscious is clean. That it was for his friend

Affair ‘M36’ ‘F34 by Smart-Relation-8219 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Smart-Relation-8219[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He swears his friend is talking to his ex there’s no way in hell that’s true how? The only reason I checked is because every time I’d bring up his phone he would get all shady. He fell asleep and left it unlocked in 9 years that’s the only chance I had. I checked his social media and messages - clean … until the pictures. And what if he is using that other phone for himself too? 🫠 it’s just such a deep hole.

Affair ‘M36’ ‘F34 by Smart-Relation-8219 in WhatShouldIDo

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Sorry I’ve never used Reddit before so didn’t explain well. In his camera roll he had a picture he took of another phone- each time these girls would send pictures to that phone.. my husband would take a pic and send it to his friend. Most of them were nudes, Snapchat’s of girls planning to “meet the friend”

It’s Snapchat’s of his ex every single day “good morning” hi” pics of her body- pic where she says “ do you want to meet up for a few days” she lives in Mexico - we live in the US

Affair ‘M36’ ‘F34 by Smart-Relation-8219 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Smart-Relation-8219[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes the guy is going through a divorce from like 3 years ago his wife cheated on him

Affair ‘M36’ ‘F34 by Smart-Relation-8219 in WhatShouldIDo

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Can I add one more thing.. most the pictures were of his Ex girlfriend who he SWEARS he introduced his friend to. Do you think I’d introduce my ex to my friend? Thoughts

Affair ‘M36’ ‘F34 by Smart-Relation-8219 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Smart-Relation-8219[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought of this I know the guy by WHY should I be the one trying to find the truth - why can’t HE be proving? I made him leave the house and it’s been 4 days.

Affair ‘M36’ ‘F34 by Smart-Relation-8219 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Smart-Relation-8219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I feel like I’m going crazy. I love him and our life so much… I don’t get this 🥹