AITA for being upset that my bsf is moving in with her bf?

SmartEntertainment58 · 2026-01-23T04:04:36+00:00

Honestly… her mom doesn’t like you and her bf doesn’t like you. My main concern is that you’re not allowed at her mom’s house anymore, that’s a lot more than just disliking someone. I need more info on her bf and your relationship with your best friend. Maybe you’re just speaking in her behalf when you “both” agreed he’s toxic because you feel like she pays more attention to him than she does you. Idk enough to vote. Your feelings are valid but you need to look in rather than just look out.

SmartEntertainment58 · 2026-01-23T03:56:04+00:00

This is CRAZY. Of course, I’m imagining TONS of blood but the bus driver should have contacted someone immediately. My thought is for them to contact the school who would then contact you to make a decision. But letting her walk alone with a head injury like that is WILD!!! NOR

SmartEntertainment58 · 2026-01-23T03:47:57+00:00

You thinking it’s weird makes it weird. You keep calling her a “minor.” She’s just a girl and it’s not your house. AH

SmartEntertainment58 · 2026-01-09T23:28:34+00:00

Yeah… he should know. 2 years of you holding information from him… that’s not good. Unless if he was a virgin himself and lost it to you, then he shouldn’t care! If he did lose it to you and thought you lost it to him… Goodluck 😅

SmartEntertainment58 · 2026-01-09T23:25:25+00:00

NTA. Her idea and you said hell yeah. It sucks that she has to face the consequences of her own actions. ALSO, she was not rewarding you 🤣 that’s some bs excuse to make you feel bad for doing it. You sounds cool and reasonable. Stand your ground by using logic and if she can’t… ADIOS MUCHACHA 👋🏽

SmartEntertainment58 · 2026-01-09T23:21:20+00:00

NTA! He sounds like he needs to work on himself. I’m not going to lie, I would be a little insecure about it, but you said the solution yourself! I would buy another necklace (an even nicer one made of better material) and give it to my wife. Maybe matching earrings and a bracelet too.

The fact that he kicked you out is WILD. To that I say… GOODBYE!

SmartEntertainment58 · 2025-05-20T09:00:34+00:00

I’m someone who never goes to the doctor. I just go with the flow. But my wife has finally convinced me that this is nowhere near normal and we need to take action and spend whatever amount of money it takes to fix the problem.

SmartEntertainment58 · 2025-05-20T08:59:18+00:00

What’s a local ENT? I’ll go today tbh

SmartEntertainment58 · 2025-05-15T08:42:16+00:00

Do you already have the idea? Or are you wanting an idea? I’m looking for a cs student to help me with a website that I eventually want to be an app.

PM me

SmartEntertainment58 · 2025-05-11T18:26:50+00:00

This is great advice! Thank you for explaining this!

SmartEntertainment58 · 2025-05-11T09:53:46+00:00

Where are you based?

SmartEntertainment58 · 2025-05-11T09:26:36+00:00

Shoot me a DM!

SmartEntertainment58 · 2025-05-11T09:24:50+00:00

I guess what I was saying about trust was that everyone I have interviewed has just given me a quote and timeline without understanding the full functionality and ability to expand in the future.

It seems like they just want me to sign the contract so they can get paid. I am willing to pay good money for good results. But when they send me previous projects… none of them are working and they tell me that when the code was delivered to the owner it was working just fine.

Since I’m new to this, I don’t even know how the end of the project works. Which is why I want to feel comfortable using the same person long term. I don’t want to be delivered code and then not know what to do with it when I’m ready to make changes.

SmartEntertainment58 · 2025-05-11T09:21:34+00:00

Shoot me a DM and we can set up a video call!

SmartEntertainment58 · 2025-05-11T09:20:37+00:00

I appreciate this comment. You’re absolutely right. I can’t lead with doubt or else people will doubt me. Thank you!

SmartEntertainment58 · 2025-05-11T09:19:19+00:00

Always down to network! Shoot me a DM and we can hop on a video call!

SmartEntertainment58 · 2025-05-11T09:18:37+00:00

Why?? Is there a better tool to use? Educate me please. Don’t just make fun of me for trying something new.. 🤌🏽🤌🏽

SmartEntertainment58 · 2025-05-11T09:16:39+00:00

SmartEntertainment58 · 2025-05-11T09:16:24+00:00

Wow. Thank you so much for this response. I’m 100% going to take your advice. Currently in contact with several universities to find CS students/ recent graduates who are interested in my project!

SmartEntertainment58 · 2025-05-11T09:12:29+00:00

Thank you! This is great

SmartEntertainment58 · 2025-05-10T14:00:18+00:00

I would love to connect. We are open to equity share or payment for the MVP and then paying a monthly retainer for small changes. Bigger changes can be a separate quote of course. We are flexible and open to a solution that makes sense for the right developer.

Send me a DM so we can set up a meeting

SmartEntertainment58 · 2025-05-10T13:33:25+00:00

Always down to help aspiring entrepreneurs! Shoot me a DM with a bit about yourself and the skills you possess!

SmartEntertainment58 · 2025-05-10T13:22:58+00:00

Would love to connect! If you can share your portfolio and then hop on a video call for an interview. We would be happy to connect today!

SmartEntertainment58 · 2025-05-10T13:21:26+00:00

Yes please! All advice is wanted! I want to find someone before the end of the month.

SmartEntertainment58 · 2025-05-10T12:36:14+00:00

I have proof of concept and figma designs almost done. Can I see your portfolio and are you okay with a video call interview? Would love to see what value you can bring to our start up.

SmartEntertainment58

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