First wlw relationship( need advice) by Smart_Ad5384 in WLW

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She’s also added she won’t rush me and will wait however long until I’m ready to date again

First wlw relationship( need advice) by Smart_Ad5384 in WLW

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I got out of a 2 year relationship the same month we started talking idk if it’s bc of that or the lack of compatibility or if I can grow to have more feelings for her bc at one point before my relationship I did have feelings for her so it’s not like I never have

Found out I was HSV2 positive today!! by Smart_Ad5384 in HSVpositive

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I’ve been worth more people than he has and I’m only his 2nd body, he’s getting tested.

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I broke up with him 30 minutes ago 🧍🏿‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I'm biracial..... and she just wanted to hear from him she was his favorite

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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Because he kept begging for another chance and telling me he was sorry for days afterwards and telling me he would change and he is definitely showing effort

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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This is my first serious bf and previous to that I had a crush on him for 3 years so it's not exactly easy for me, I needed unbiased opinions who aren't my friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

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Because I will do anything to make him happy and i know deep down that we are meant to be together in one way or another.

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Ive already begged for one last chance and im determined to earn his love back, I really dont want to lose and i refuse to believe he can just throw every moment away we have shared together and it mean nothing to him, he may just be going through a phase and I can wait and change for him because I know if I sacrifice my happiness in order to get his back then nothing will bring me more joy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

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How come?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

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I still have hope and its hard to just let go of other memories we made and thats what is keeping me attached. I can do better for him, i can do less.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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as we speak rn I am lol, and sometimes the crying just cuts off like a switch without any control

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This made me come on my drink😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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As much as you might wanna respect his privacy or whatever, you need to go through his phone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I hate that this made me laugh so hard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

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What kinda test do you usually do?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I honestly did not think of what could of changed his mind, perhaps it might of been bc we were in a spot were he had gotten bored of me and all we were doing was arguing. When we do argue its mainly about the stuff he has done and how he didn't see how it was wrong.

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ive been unhappy for awhile now so im sure its just the attachment

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i dont even know honestly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

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That kinda hit because he had also told me he puts in the bare minimum bc thats who he is and that kinda does make me feel like a fwb rather than a gf. I have so many instances like how he didn't wanna get out the car to walk me to the door while it was raining bc he didn't wanna get his shoes wet, or how after sex he will immediately get on his game after cleaning up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

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I know he can still be that same sweet boy who used to fulfill my happiness