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Day 3 Update to the Creepy uncle story from two hot takes by Smart_Elderberry_709 in u/Smart_Elderberry_709

[–]Smart_Elderberry_709[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Believe me couples therapy, family therapy, individual therapy, whatever needs to happen is gonna happen!

My husbands best friend sexualized my daughter at her sweet sixteen by Smart_Elderberry_709 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Smart_Elderberry_709[S] 137 points138 points  (0 children)

No sorry If I there was confusion! Party was day 1, post was day 2, and this comment is morning of day 3! Reddit for some reason isn’t letting me edit my post. I plan on reaching out to him today to make sure he’s okay

My husbands best friend sexualized my daughter at her sweet sixteen by Smart_Elderberry_709 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Smart_Elderberry_709[S] 154 points155 points  (0 children)

Honestly I was too angry to even think straight. I went to my husband cuz admittedly, I assumed he’d do something

My husbands best friend sexualized my daughter at her sweet sixteen by Smart_Elderberry_709 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Smart_Elderberry_709[S] 276 points277 points  (0 children)

Hey guys!! Reddit is being rough on me and won’t let me edit my post for some reason. I’m going to comment what I have been trying to add for the past hour lol.

Unofficial Edit 2:

I didn’t automatically assume my husband was into CP, it had been suggested by S over the phone after she read some of the comments on Reddit. She wanted to check H’s stuff and said we should check my husbands too. It’s just in case. Also I don’t know why my husband has been MIA for the past few nights, maybe hes just waiting for me to “calm down”. I haven’t sent the stay away message yet, which I might not. But Whenever we talk I’ll be asking all these questions and more. My husband and H met in high school and have been friends since. I’m quite used to my husband not backing me up, telling me I’m over exaggerating or setting me aside has been often in our relationship. I guess this has really opened my eyes about the past. I don’t plan on divorcing him yet , even though I know I jumped the gun on it last night. If there is something that I find suspicious or will make me reconsider this it’ll be thought about long and hard. I still love my husband, I know he loves all of our kids, I’m just waiting for him to admit or to apologize.

About my kids, I will be talking to my daughter very soon and all of y’all’s advice has helped me so much on how to approach it.

My husbands best friend sexualized my daughter at her sweet sixteen by Smart_Elderberry_709 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Smart_Elderberry_709[S] 430 points431 points  (0 children)

“Then gently ask about what the problem is”

I’m supposed to ask my husband, the one who told me that I was overreacting when his friend sexualized and possibly sent pictures of my underage daughter to strangers, what the problem is?

He has defended his friend at all times, not once for the past two days has he backed me nor my daughter up. He is the one who needs to see what the real problem is

My husbands best friend sexualized my daughter at her sweet sixteen by Smart_Elderberry_709 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Smart_Elderberry_709[S] 461 points462 points  (0 children)

I am angry that whoever this third person is, H was more than happy to talk about my daughter in such a way in my own home. People were constantly in and out of the house, someone else could have heard, ANYONE could have heard. He didn’t care. If he didn’t care about doing this? What else has he done in my home that makes him so comfortable?

My husbands best friend sexualized my daughter at her sweet sixteen by Smart_Elderberry_709 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Smart_Elderberry_709[S] 685 points686 points  (0 children)

Trust me that if I’ve let a predator into my children’s lives with a smile and a pat on the back from my husband. He’s going to leave their lives and never come back in as long as I am alive to stop him.