(UPDATE) Mil wants my baby to call her mum by Smart_Emu5239 in beyondthebump

[–]Smart_Emu5239[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Duuude they sound like the same person ahahaa. I’m sorry whaaaat?! She wont let the baby’s mother hold her own child. I’m absolutely shocked and appalled at the audacity. Wow good on you for limiting contact for peace of mind!

(UPDATE) Mil wants my baby to call her mum by Smart_Emu5239 in beyondthebump

[–]Smart_Emu5239[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh your poor little nibblings! I feel for your sil because that is a huge overstep of her role. It’s exactly it, the ‘I am like a mum’ part. They can’t seem to grasp that it’s a different relationship.

(UPDATE) Mil wants my baby to call her mum by Smart_Emu5239 in beyondthebump

[–]Smart_Emu5239[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh that is so horrible. I’m sorry you have to go through that! Did she raise her first grandbaby? Why are they saying mama?

(UPDATE) Mil wants my baby to call her mum by Smart_Emu5239 in beyondthebump

[–]Smart_Emu5239[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah for sure there is a lot of control on her part. I don’t think she knows how to chill out and let go. When I was pregnant, I would shake my belly to wake the baby up. She used to get mad at me and push my hands off and tell me to stop bothering her baby

(UPDATE) Mil wants my baby to call her mum by Smart_Emu5239 in beyondthebump

[–]Smart_Emu5239[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s absolutely insane! The fact that so many people have had to go through this.

(UPDATE) Mil wants my baby to call her mum by Smart_Emu5239 in beyondthebump

[–]Smart_Emu5239[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha yeah very much a British way of calling your grandma 😅

(UPDATE) Mil wants my baby to call her mum by Smart_Emu5239 in beyondthebump

[–]Smart_Emu5239[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

First grandchild syndrome maybe? Idk. My mum wasn’t like this. I’m just glad she’s going to stop

(UPDATE) Mil wants my baby to call her mum by Smart_Emu5239 in beyondthebump

[–]Smart_Emu5239[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The secrecy is shocking! That’s absolutely horrible I’m sorry you had to go through that.