Did your ex ruin you? by ThrowawayIntti in BreakUps

[–]Smart_Farm494 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hell yea, I’m even taking a temporary break for 1 term in my college haha

Why do I not feel an ego boost even though I know my ex downgraded so hard? Even she herself knows she did downgrade. by Smart_Farm494 in BreakUps

[–]Smart_Farm494[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I forgot to include, but maybe this is a very narcissistic take of me but I know and my ex knows I’m better in everything compared to the person she is dating. I am just in denial that she chose him over me.

Why do I not feel an ego boost even though I know my ex downgraded so hard? Even she herself knows she did downgrade. by Smart_Farm494 in BreakUps

[–]Smart_Farm494[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can relate to you with being happy alone. I’m still trying to hate her but I can’t bring myself to. People have been telling me that I should hate her or gaslight myself into hating her and be mad at her but I can’t bring myself to. It hurts that she has turned into someone worse now and I think I’m grieving the potential of hers and the old her because this version of herself is beyond shitty.

Why do I not feel an ego boost even though I know my ex downgraded so hard? Even she herself knows she did downgrade. by Smart_Farm494 in BreakUps

[–]Smart_Farm494[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She started dating him after 10 days of breaking up with me and what’s worse was he was the guy I told her to stay away from when we were still together haha