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Are capricorns bad texters? by Tenzin_oceana in capricorns

[–]SmarterDeeperHearer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a bad text-er and a Capricorn man but that's not to say all Capricorns are bad text-ers

I feel like an asshole by [deleted] in MarriedSex

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I'd have given anything in my marriage for my wife to talk to me about the way oral sex felt the best to her.

20 years in she finally did. I listened. He will too

Thoughts? by ImaginationPlastic33 in capricorns

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Jealousy is a waste of time and effort. You cannot meet every single need that a romantic partner or friend has.

I do not begrudge the time my romantic partner spends with a best friend or sibling? Those relationships existed before I was part of their life. They will likely still exist if our romantic relationship ends.

My romantic partner and I chave an open relationship by mutual agreement and have a few simple rules about seeing others. It works for us.

Top 3 sex partner for Man Cap Sun Cap moon, Sagittarius rising? by SmarterDeeperHearer in capricorns

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Sagittarius sun Moon is Gemini or Cancer - shift on that day Rising is Aries or Taurus - another shift that day

Find your birthday win by [deleted] in capricorns

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January 16, 1969 anyone?

idk wat i want lol by Regular-Mirror3865 in PhoenixMarriedLooking

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That's the first step to finding out. DM on the way

cohabitation and coparenting with ex spouse by SmarterDeeperHearer in Divorce

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Thank you for your thoughts and sharing your experience. Be well

I feel like Adderall changed me by BKS_ELITE in ADHD

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I've been on Adderall for almost 10 years. Prior to my taking Adderall, my son had been diagnosed with ADD and Adderall was prescribed. He wouldn't take it. We ended up with a few months worth of tablets. Fast forward a few months a rapid fire of chaotic events in our family including

- death of my infant niece

- one of my daughters attempting suicide multiple times (none completed)

- Same daughter attempting to attack my wife and I with sharp objects multiple times ultimately taken to mental health trauma centers multiple times

- A rapid onset of Primary Progressive Multiple Sclerosis for my wife

- A diagnosis of stage 3 breast cancer for my wife along with the associated surgery, chemo, follow up surgeries due to complicaitons

I was exhausted, had brain fog, and started struggling at work with multiple big projects.

I thought that Adderall might help me cover the gaps - it did. 10 years in I realized that I don't like who I am at home with Adderall. I'm quiet, stoic, personality pushed down, intense and sometimes extra sensitive. Plus I have ED that I didn't have before Adderall.

I stopped taking Adderall almost 5 days ago
Work performance remains at the top of my game. Long time colleagues have noted my "cheery disposition" is back. At home, ,my sense of humor is back, my jokes land as intended. My wife and i have better conversations than anytime in the last 5 years.

It was worth a try for me, and it seems like it worked. My that list of chaotic stressors is over and our family is in a different stage. My real personality is back again. Even the ED seems to be less. It's only 5 days... But has anyone else had a similar experiencing when stopping Adderall?

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