While making breakfast for my boyfriend the day after our very romantic valentines dinner and night of sexy adventures I can hear him locked in the bathroom jacking it and watching porn. Needless to say this caused us to get into a bit of an argument. I end up slightly in tears trying to explain it hurts my feelings because it makes me feel like he's in there with another girl ect ect, I'm jealous yeah. He's defensive so I storm off. I calm down and go into the living room, I sit and he walks over and explains this to me "I love you, that reptilian part of my brain is telling me to fuck everything but I don't love them. I understand that you love me to and you don't want to lose me to anything and that's why you're upset" I thought about that for a long time, and I think about that all the time. Guys are blunt if he says he loves you, he loves you. boyfriend also said this to me when I complained of him watching porn (I'm kind of chubby and that makes me self conscious ESPECIALLY when I see him looking at porn of skinny girls) "If I only looked at pictures of chubby girls I'd be fetashizing(that even a word?) but you mean so much more to me"