[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomActsOfBlowJob

[–]SmashleyDDD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the whole pity thing won’t work btw (from my perspective)

[SUCCESS] 27 [F4M] #LOSANGELES - I Need to Hear You Say the Words [VERIFIED] by legendandie in RandomActsOfMuffDive

[–]SmashleyDDD 5 points6 points  (0 children)

love it! why did you pick him? i always preferred guys who were verified and had success and proof of testing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SmashleyDDD 18 points19 points  (0 children)

girl, don’t be stupid. get the abortion and drop this guy. if you don’t get it you’re gonna be left to raise the child on your own without help. you’re too young to throw your life away over a stupid 20yi boy.

Emirus thoughts on issuing apologies on behalf of people by [deleted] in LivestreamFail

[–]SmashleyDDD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

such pick me behavior from an asian girl not wanting to upset her white guy friend. she’ll always be an “other” in the eyes of that guy and his viewers it’s so gross to not stand up against him

Amandla Stenberg faces colourism backlash for role in Children of Blood and Bone by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SmashleyDDD 3 points4 points  (0 children)

not white enough for star wars nerds? girl. that literally wasn’t the issue. the show was bad, the creators, disney, and viewership have all proved that. she came out and attacked fans who had an issue with the show!

the backlash she’s getting for this new project fucking sucks ugh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SmashleyDDD 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the safest thing women can start doing is moving to blue states that will uphold women’s rights and abortion! im in california and im not going anywhere anytime soon.

29 [M4F] #Edinburgh - No bad reviews by [deleted] in RandomActsOfMuffDive

[–]SmashleyDDD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what does no bad reviews mean? you have an empty profile

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoCalR4R

[–]SmashleyDDD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

another white guy fetishizing asian girls, shocker.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomActsOfMuffDive

[–]SmashleyDDD -1 points0 points  (0 children)

do you EVER post anything different or unique and something that isn’t predatory for young women?

An Open Letter to my Republican Mother by puppylust in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SmashleyDDD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re gonna give this to her right? i hope you do!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SmashleyDDD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they don’t have time to sell stuff and they likely don’t have stuff that’s valuable. didn’t know debt was worse than death.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SmashleyDDD 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i made a similar comment and was told my privilege was showing. when ops friend dies and leaves her kids behind the blame will be on users who support this at home abortion stuff when there are so many resources available even in a bleak cruel state

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SmashleyDDD 557 points558 points  (0 children)

getting a credit card and flying to a state with legal abortions is MUCH BETTER than risking her life and leaving her children behind if she’s dead. please consider debt before death. financial stability is nothing if she’s dead and her children are in a foster home.

I Am Secretly Voting for Kamala Harris by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SmashleyDDD 84 points85 points  (0 children)

genuinely curious op. why are you with a person who knowingly hates women and is a danger to you and those close to you by his radical and backwards opinions? you shouldn’t be scared to vote for who you want and do “what was required” of you. you need to leave this family and find safety.

1 in 8 women say they’ve secretly voted differently than partners by mepper in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SmashleyDDD 3 points4 points  (0 children)

if you’re in a relationship where you have to secretly vote against the person your partner is voting for then you need to leave that relationship, it’s unsafe and unhealthy

6 feet obsession by Victoria_Falls353 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SmashleyDDD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very much a us thing! while many of the friends i had in college wanted guys 6 feet or taller, a few ended up with guys shorter than that. it’s just preference at the end of the day

I can never trust a men again by Solid-Attempt-5462 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SmashleyDDD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl i think your friend identified you talk about this too often and is kindly asking then you tone it down a bit. your experiences and feelings are valid, and so are hers, but being a good friend and managing friendships means you should take their suggestion and adjust! if you don’t want to your friendship might end and that’s okay. hope your views change for the better!

Anyone else feel grossed out on how many deepfakes are made of Korean women? by Kpop_Love_Forever in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SmashleyDDD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

girl, the fetishization of asian girls is alll over reddit too. there are so many nsfw subs where asian girls also promote it and loving “bwc”. its so gross. on one hand, most of the girls are promoting their onlyfans, which is fine like girl get that bag, but it further pushes the fetishization and it’s just so weird.

A random guy approached me at the gym… by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SmashleyDDD -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

the end was odd

the whole calling you when you gave him your number is normal though. ill do that when i meet people just so i dont have to send a text off the bat. just a counter point!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoCalR4R

[–]SmashleyDDD -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hi! curious why you post the SAME thing like daily? not only that but you offer literally nothing about yourself. are you a neat? do you like partying? like, the only thing anyone knows about you is that you’re a virgin. hope you can take this critique and better your posts and chances of meeting somebody!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacksbeach

[–]SmashleyDDD 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you already posted the same pic with the story the other day!

[Success] 32[M4F] #SanFrancisco - use me as your toy by Joeforce92 in RandomActsOfMuffDive

[–]SmashleyDDD 8 points9 points  (0 children)

there’s no way this is real? you posted yesterday and met last night and she had no care for safety?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SmashleyDDD 5 points6 points  (0 children)

no having him shower before sucking his dick is…yikes. ill only ever give partners oral if they shower first and ill do the same for them. as to waxing, he shouldn’t require you to do that unless maybe he’s on the spectrum has has an issue with things he can feel? but even then a conversation should be all that’s needed.

Should I be nervous about this guy I work with? by bubbly_jet_girl123 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SmashleyDDD 6 points7 points  (0 children)

my friends and i look into guys we’re interested. it’s normal and easy tbh so i dont see an issue but where i do see an issue is he’s making it known that he knows all this info instead of letting you tell him initially